I'm not sure if I can ask these kind of questions here but here we go!

**Animal64** · 08-27-2016 06:37 PM

So, last night I dreamed about a girl in my class. (We're 16(First year of "Swedish High-School")). In real life I think she's cute, but I've never had feelings for her. She has a boyfriend (Long distance relationship). But in the dream I hooked up with her. I loved her in the dream, had strong emotions for her. The location was at our previous school, so called "elementary school". (Which lasts until the year you turn 16 in Sweden.) She ended up breaking up with her current boyfriend, actuallly even tricking him into drowning in a swamp(?) Which I find weird now afterwards. That's where the dream ended as well. What could this dream have meant? (This was not a lucid dream) Sorry if I can't ask these kind of questions here but I really don't know where else to ask.

Anyway... If anyone wants to help me out you're welcome to do so. If you want to know anything more about the dream, just tell me. Thanks in advance. =)

**gab** · 08-27-2016 08:36 PM

Yes, you can ask these question on this forum. It had been moved to Dream Interpretation.

I would say, that maybe you do have some feelings for this girl in waking life. Or maybe not. I think that sometimes dreams show us scenarios to let us experience how would some things feel if it was real. So this way you got to experienced love. I'm not sure how strong this feeling was, if it was as a true love or just affection, but now you know how it would feel, haha.

**ghuntington** · 09-28-2016 06:14 PM

Hi,
First thanks for taking the courage to post a question about a romantic dream. I think, once I’ve done an interpretation on your dream as if it was mine, you’ll be likely surprised at what your dream is telling you about yourself.

I’ve learnt from my dreams over the years, that no dream scene is created by chance. EVERYTHING in a dream has meaning, if only we are listening to ourselves. Therefore, I’m going to ask you a series of questions. I want you to go back to your dream, as an observer, and answer them as best you can. Once you’ve done this, I will happily provide an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

Scenes:
I want you to tell me all the different scenes in this dream. Don’t skip over one because you think it’s embarrassing or whatever. Tell me each scene in the dream.

Then comes the hard work…

FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left
2. To your right
3. In front of you
4. Behind you
5. Above you
6. Below you

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. If you’re having sex or whatever in your dream, it’s symbolic and can teach you about yourself. So simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

It’s a lot of work. In my own case, almost each night I get a course on myself. It’s not always pleasant but I am always learning lots about myself. You can too.

Thanks for your efforts in advance.

With kind regards,
Guy