Have you done it, has someone done it to you, WHY do people do it, and lastly please tell me that most people don't actually do it and that I shouldn't worry about it. |
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Have you done it, has someone done it to you, WHY do people do it, and lastly please tell me that most people don't actually do it and that I shouldn't worry about it. |
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Well OK, let me tell you about cheating. First, let's define terms here: |
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Wow. That's a lot of pain. Although I agree mostly. |
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I have NEVER cheated on any girl I have been with. But I have been cheated on. And I am of the thinking now that it is infact the minority that don't cheat. It's a nasty thought to have, and the more you are hurt, the more your going to e suspicious of new relationships! I don't know how I'm going to let go should I find someone again. I have been hurt plenty in the past!! So much so that the last relationship I got into I already had the mentality that it was all going to end with me being hurt, so didn't really put much expectation in to it being worth trying for. And it did all end in tears! |
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Nope, that falls under my first definition: Cheater: 1) A selfish b@stard - male or female - who thinks that their personal whims are more important than their integrity and the well-being and feelings of those they falsely proclaim to love. |
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Thanks for the replies guys. |
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Well I do have a strange situation, but anyway I don't think you're wanting too much. |
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Cheating is just for idiotic people that don't know what they want. |
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I disagree with "you have to go through hell". WEll it's true on some level. But my experience has been "when is this hell going to end." I think it's important to acknowledge crappy emotions when you get cheated on, or when you feel violated. In my experience, as long as i don't dwell on it too much, I'll be ok. |
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I feel your pain. After being cheated on multiple times myself, it's so damn hard to have that trust again. Just when you get cozy, you're haunted by the memories of how perfect everything seemed the last time. You know, BEFORE you were f*cked over, when everything seemed so cinched up and tidy. |
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Yep, that's exactly the feeling I was trying to describe. And there's always the constant doubt in your mind because of it. *sigh* |
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Well, it's been confirmed, my fiance is screwing some other dude. |
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Damn did i ever get just tottally cheated on. |
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- From the DJ of Waking Nomad!
honestly i think it's an insecurty thing. |
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- From the DJ of Waking Nomad!
People who cheat sicken me. I've been cheated on, and it is not fun. Thank goodness that I have a person like I do, who understands this premise as well as I. |
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I think possibly what dodobird might be getting at are some relationships, or marriages dont have the physical side to them, so people might cheat to get that satisfaction out the way and then concentrate on everything else in the marriage, thats about the only thing I could come up with. |
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