That sounds similar to a point. But this Don Juan character is your problem I think. You quote him, we don't understand, you quote him again. Even if you just give your own advice it is always put together with words and meaning by him.

Can we get the 100% original Silverbullet take on this? And leave out the big words and metaphors this time, I don't have time to sift through something when I could easily read about plain and simple if it had a wiki.