Thread: Confusing Dream

Hello, im 21 years old, a female and about 4 months ago my first boyfirend broke up with me.. he was 10 years older and everyone has said its for the best it stil hurts everyday.. i did get really depressed (i still am) the reaosn he broke up with me was that he loved me but wasnt in love with me.. it kills me he doesnt speek to me but i still speak to him (i know it have broken all the rules, i just dont want him to forget about me ) anyway so i have reduce communication and havent spoken for 4 days.. but a few nights ago i had this dream.. which has puzzled me...

Its a bright sunny day and i am at a boat harbout.. i dont reconise it.. so its not one ive been to.. so am sat on boat on my own.. its still in the harbour, i havent set sail or anything.
Than my ex walkes onto the boat.. it makes me feel so safe and happy to see him. Than he doesnt say anything just hands me a note, i dont read it,
He walks off the boat onto the decking of dry land.. so i walk ater him, i call him Chris!!! but he ignores me.. so i start chasing him. he looks at me and runs to get away..
so i call one more time.. but give up a fall on the floor.. the day is still so sunny and im still at this harbour by all these boats.
he stops walks towards me and points at the note he gave me earllier.. than he walks away and hes gone...
so i look down at the note.. and al it says on a plain white pieace of pappier..
6 MONTHS...

thats all i can remember.. can someone help.. is it how long it wil take to get over him.. i dont know xxxxx

Hi Abj,

I think you are absolutely right about what the 6 months means and I think that you've been contacting him less is a good thing and a start down the 6 months track. It might even mean that you'll find someone new after that time? Who knows. The part of the dream where you are ready to set sail on a harbour but you never take off, seems to mean to me at least, hat maybe your relationship was only ever a one way thing and it never really took off perhaps???

I read you're other post as well, and I think it was an absolutely necessary thing for you to be so upset about the break-up. You have allowed yourself to grieve, and it does sound like now that you are just about ready to let it go. In the end, you do have to respect his wishes. (Best to avoid becoming someone's stalker! Lol) You cannot force someone to love you.

I really doubt very much that he will forget you. People just don't forget about that kind of thing, so don't worry about that.

All the best with your next six months! Do the best you can during that time and you might get your new reward at the end!