Really confusing dream

[Delegara]

Ok, so I'm going to start off by recounting the dream, then I'll add in anything important at the bottom, just so I don't forget anything. Last night, I had this dream about my girlfriends (Her name is Cal) ex-boyfriend (Ben). Basically I think we were going to a gathering or something, because I remember near the end of the dream we were in a group of people. So the dream starts off with Ben and I walking through what looks like a tree nursery (Just between the buildings, not actually inside) and he says something along the lines of 'you know if we're alone something might happen.' It wasn't exactly that phrase, because I ended up shrugging and saying "If it happens it happens, but I'm not about to make you." To this he started running and motioning for me to follow him, saying he knew a great place to go. I don't know why, but I followed him. We came to this one place (still looked like the nursery, but now we were up higher and I could see the tops of the buildings.) and I really loved the view. Then someone else came along. I'm sure it was Cal and Ben's mutual friend (I don't remember the name.) because Ben seemed to know him and was really friendly towards this guy. From here we decided to wander the place, climbing over fences and walls, walking on top of buildings. This is when we came to the group. I don't remember seeing Ben, but I know he was there because I could feel his presence. It was almost intimidating having him around me all the time like that. Like he was almost always watching me, taking note of my every move. I ended up hanging out and talking with this girl (I have no idea who they were.) and we got on the topic of our tans. I said I didn't care if I had tan lines, and showed her one line that was starting to become prominent. (I just remember looking at it, and it almost looked like a faded line because I wasn't tan enough for it to stand out very much.) It was at this point that I felt the need to tell everyone that if they didn't want tan lines, then they should do something about it. Right around here is when I woke up, and I just remember being so confused and a little freaked out. Like someone was laying beside me watching my every move still, but when I rolled over, no one was there. The feeling dissipated after a while when I had enough time to wake up, but its still weird. Ok, so here's some extra information; -I'm a girl, and so is Cal -Ben was her most recent boyfriend -I don't tan period, so that part of the dream is pretty confusing to me -I don't like Ben in a romantic way at all -Ben and I have never hung out together by ourselves (There's usually always someone there) -Cal wasn't in this dream what so ever. Not even a mention of her. -Ben's the type of guy who seems to have to get what he wants, when he wants it. He'll even fight to get it. -Him and Cal still hang out even after breaking up. (they didn't hang out period when they first broke up, but over time they learned to be friends and started hanging out with each other.)

[JoannaB]

I think maybe you are uncomfortable with your gf and her former bf still hanging with each other, and that was part of the reason for this dream?