Thread: I had a dream about two women fighting on a bed; can someone interpret?

Just my little disclaimer, that any interpretation I give is just suggestion at best; the one who dreamt something is truly the only person that can decide whether an interpretation makes sense to them or not.

Without more context about your own life or your own thoughts about the dream context, this dream could really be about a number of things. When you say they were fighting on a bed, were they both standing up and was it like wrestling/free-fighting? Or was it more like they were both in bed and having some kind off tussle/fight while lying down? I'm trying to think if the energy in the fight was less or more erotic, respectively.

In the dream, what kind of presence did you have? Were you physically there as an observer? Or was it the kind of dream in which you're there more like a camera, not actually part of the scene?

Personally, if this was my dream, I would think that the two women could relate to aspects of femininity about myself. Their hair colours to me could also represent specific personality traits based on women I've personally known with those hair colours.

If the women did not relate to an aspect about yourself, it could be about a conflict between any two people in your life, including yourself, but perhaps friends that are fighting over something? Even under that sort of context I wouldn't exclude the possibility that one of these dream women could relate to a part of you more directly, since even when we're not part of someone else's direct relationship with another someone else, we can still find ourselves identifying with one part or another of either person.

Before looking into it more let's look at the sexuality aspect of the dream. Did any of it make you think of sexual things. Would you think of the women as pretty or pleasingly shaped? Was the clothing something appealing (nude,silk night cloths, stuff like that), was the fighting viscous or more something that could be a scene in a fantasy?
If the answer is yes, one may make certain interpretations or if not other interpretations.

The dream took place in the third-person view, the two women were actually fighting/wrestling. I was not physically there as an observer. I don't remember any clothing and they was not naked. I had dreams with these kind of women in them and when I wake-up, I was sexually aroused. I do find women who have a bob cut hair style very attractive.

OK, my guess, just randomly and for fun. There are two women in your life who you are interested in and you are not sure which of them is best for you or that you want to get closer too.

Originally Posted by Sivason

There are two women in your life who you are interested in and you are not sure which of them is best for you or that you want to get closer too.

Yeah, it could be something as simple as this too, especially if there was arousal on waking up. And since you also mentioned finding the hair style a particularly attractive feature.

Just because the rest of their traits weren't obviously sexual to me wouldn't mean that the dream didn't have an erotic/sexual element to it, and on the other hand for many males the so-called "cat fighting" is often considered somewhat erotic in itself.

These are some good responses. I rarely see women around with a bob cut in my life.

I agree with the other posts. Either this is about your preferences in some way, or it could be about aspects of yourself. Or it could have both meanings.

I do lean toward aspects of yourself mostly due to the hair color being opposites and they were warring with each other in a way. Perhaps the light and dark within yourself (light hair, dark hair). I would also connect it with your inner feminine side, which may have both positive and negative dualistic characteristics.