I'm going to put this as simply as it can probably be put:
The main problem with the OP is that, while 90% of the entire post addresses why it's wrong for blacks to ridicule whites for 'acting black', the last 10% clearly states that it works both ways, and whites are often guilty of doing the same thing, in reverse. It makes it seem like a case of OP bias, more than anything else. It's like "damn, why to black people do this??" and then, quietly, it's "well yeah, white people do it, too, but we're not talking about that, here."
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Now, to elaborate: How about all of the flack I get from both sides, for often 'sounding white?' All those off-color (no pun-intended) comments I get, from whites and blacks alike, because I often 'don't sound black' (usually because I have a pretty good vocabulary and often use proper english when speaking). This 'divisiveness,' that it seems the OP is founded on, is not a 'black thing'. Whites are often just as guilty. Having grown up with plenty of white kids that 'act black', I can tell you that they are often criticized by other whites who don't approve of the 'hip hop culture', whether overtly or reservedly.
With all that being said, though, I understand what the OP is getting at, and while it's something that can - very understandably - cause contempt, there is a lot of context which must be understood. There is a level of comradary (sp) within 'ethnic' communities, that white people - as the historical 'majority' - really don't seem to understand. Most people may find it illogical and - given concepts like 'black on black crime' - many find it to be hypocritical, but it is very real. It's kind of like how people in a single community might lie, cheat and steal from each other, but when their community is invaded or encroched upon by another, those people will often band together under an unwritten commonality.
So, yeah, black culture (and other 'ethnic' cultures) are often very possessive of their trends and their figureheads. Why? Because the black 'community' had been written off by so many as 'worthless' and 'inferior', for so long. You don't really expect that kind of disdain to disappear overnight (or over a couple of decades), do you? That's why it exists. I'm not going to try to downplay it, as if you're just delusional, because, like I said, blacks are often critical of other blacks who 'act white' (granted, these are all ignorant folks who don't understand that the way you act has much less to do with what color you are, than with what area you grew up in), but even if you don't agree with it - and most of us don't - you have to at least acknowledge the reason for it.
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