Thread: "Why do I like boys?"

What is it about them?

The familiarity? Sense of commonality?
The innocence?
Not having to say much? Understanding without words?
Common ground in gender, in existence?

Mabye something a little less pure? mabye something ulterior, you might just want to be diffrent?
or mabye its just the way youre wired, with no way to to change it, and no real reason why...

i think its just because we can, so we try it. and suddenly were hooked.

just my opinion, nothing to be taken seriously.

This thread would be funnier if a catholic priest started it.

Edit: nn, you're into boys?

No mercy for the Catholics... We all know thats a free masonic conspiracy, an attempt to discredit Catholics.

Of course, they forced priests to touch little boys.

I don't blame you, girls are psycho.

Originally Posted by Jeff777

This thread would be funnier if a catholic priest started it.

Edit: nn, you're into boys?

This is the internet.

Everyone's into everything.


I can't personally get how one can be attracted to boys.

I suppose I'm just wired tighter than you. But I think it probably comes from some kind of fetishist turn on by being different to what is expected, and a little bit naughty in that sense, combined with an association of boys and sexuality, probably rooting from your own experiments.

Originally Posted by Omicron

This is the internet.

Everyone's into everything.

Don't get me wrong, I just pegged him for a straight as an arrow romantic metrosexual. I didn't know he was bi-sexual.

Girls are extremely complicated. I honestly can't tell you why, unless I really got to know you, but to just throw it out there- It's probably the familiarity.

Originally Posted by Jeff777

This thread would be funnier if a catholic priest started it.

Edit: nn, you're into boys?

+100

I was under the impression that pedophelia was classified as sex with a minor, when you are not a minor yourself.
Of course, this doesn't count for instances where 19 year olds have sex with 17 year olds. That's why it gets a lot of people confused as to where to cross the line.

Both girls and guys can be very complicated or easygoing.
Yes I've encountered some of the typical man-woman miscommunications before with female friends and lovers, but then again I can't say the male friends I have have all been very easygoing, respectfull people either.

In general I guess you'll always have more male friends and mates, than female lovers. Cuz love isn't as common as friendship. So I guess many men look at their 5 love relationships with women, of which 3 were problematic and then look at their male 27friends and mates, of which 4 are problematic.. and then draw the conclusion "women suck"

Well I can say the same for men. But then there are enough men I really like. That are really kind, honoust people. And there are also enough female friends and lovers I like and that are kind, honoust people.
And that's how you oughta look at it. As people. Forget judgement by gender.

There's crap people, and there's nice people, and everything in between.

Originally Posted by Maroon_Sweater

I was under the impression that pedophelia was classified as sex with a minor, when you are not a minor yourself.

Strictly speaking, pedophilia is the sexual attraction to prepubescents, however many people use the term for sexual attraction towards any minor. Hebephilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to children during puberty. Teleiophilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to adults.

Originally Posted by Rainman

I guess simply put, pedophilia is generally speaking any sexual act with children. .

No it isn't. It's the sexual attraction.

Originally Posted by Maroon_Sweater

I was under the impression that pedophelia was classified as sex with a minor, when you are not a minor yourself.
Of course, this doesn't count for instances where 19 year olds have sex with 17 year olds. That's why it gets a lot of people confused as to where to cross the line.

No it isn't. Pedophilia is the sexual attraction to children.

Originally Posted by John11

Strictly speaking, pedophilia is the sexual attraction to prepubescents, however many people use the term for sexual attraction towards any minor. Hebephilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to children during puberty. Teleiophilia is the proper term for sexual attraction to adults.

Hah, I didn't know about the last one XDD

Originally Posted by Rainman

Just take a real close look at yourself. Don't answer this question out loud. Answer it completely in your mind. I'm a stranger on the internet, whose opinion doesn't matter. But do you REALLY like boys because you are actually interested in them, or because it's experimental, exciting, new, and rebellious?

That can be pretty hard to answer, actually... Dream guide!

I must add to it, then, I do get thrills from being a pedophile, I mean talking to people about it is thrilling, "how will they react", sort of exciting.

But it has also gotten me into sitting around, worrying about how fucked up I might be, and that is honestly not fun.

I still can't say for sure, maybe it's just for the thrills and giggles.
Hopefully. I would like to revert some day and go "Oh haha, I was so stupid back then. Tsk tsk."

Originally Posted by Maeni

That can be pretty hard to answer, actually... Dream guide!

I must add to it, then, I do get thrills from being a pedophile, I mean talking to people about it is thrilling, "how will they react", sort of exciting.

But it has also gotten me into sitting around, worrying about how fucked up I might be, and that is honestly not fun.

I still can't say for sure, maybe it's just for the thrills and giggles.
Hopefully. I would like to revert some day and go "Oh haha, I was so stupid back then. Tsk tsk."

I'm sorry, did you just admit you like little kids? Bro, that is pretty fucked up.

Yeah, and I've done that a few times already here on Dreamviews...

Actually, I think I'm polluting too many threads with it...
But I can't really talk about it anywhere else.


Also, you're the first person ever to tell me it's fucked up. I don't quite get that.

Originally Posted by Maeni

I must add to it, then, I do get thrills from being a pedophile, I mean talking to people about it is thrilling, "how will they react", sort of exciting.

But it has also gotten me into sitting around, worrying about how fucked up I might be, and that is honestly not fun.

I still can't say for sure, maybe it's just for the thrills and giggles.
Hopefully. I would like to revert some day and go "Oh haha, I was so stupid back then. Tsk tsk."

This is something you should probably go talk to a therapist about. Don't fool yourself, it is wrong no matter how you look at it. Get some help to put an end to it now before it escalates into something that could really screw up your life. Admitting you have a problem is the fist step, now do something to fix it.

Originally Posted by ClouD

What is it about them?

The familiarity? Sense of commonality?
The innocence?
Not having to say much? Understanding without words?
Common ground in gender, in existence?

Women think on a completely different plane in my opinion. They don't like video games, gorey movies, computers ect. I would have no similiar interests. (of course I'm only speaking of the chicks I know)

Males are familiar in their thinking process, because I am a male as well. The sex drives are also familiar because I have them too. (OMG!! you jerked off while looking at porn???..... aren't I.... pretty enough????)

Love of beer helps, I don't know many chicks that love beer, but my partner does and will drink it with me. I just think chicks make better friends. I have never had much success living with one for long.

Originally Posted by ClouD

What is it about them?

The familiarity? Sense of commonality?
The innocence?
Not having to say much? Understanding without words?
Common ground in gender, in existence?

Maybe the fact that they are care free..simple. Just guessing that might have a psychological attraction, desiring to be around what you mentioned is completely normal, except manifest in children. But I'm sure if you wait around long enough you will find a girl that will share those sort of attributes. If you find that you like boys more than girls, whatever. Do what ever makes you happy man, that's my advice.

Oh my, this thread.

Marisa, Marisa tasukete Marisaaaa~
I'm just thinking.
Don't mind me.

I know why I like boys. Many reasons for that, the most important ones being: quick sexual development, playing with male cousins too much, getting a 'no' from a girl too early.

I like boyish boys, not manly ones. Not really because they remind me of chicks, but because they look younger. I think society and raising managed to put the dislike for males in me partly. I also dislike crossdressers for the matter.

That said, I'm kinda bi-curious about girls.

So Kromoh and ClouD are boylovers?

I thought I was the only one here before I found this thread.

8 - 14 years old

I love them in every way possible.

Hah I prefer them older. Anywhere from 12-17. Might sound normal, but I've always like boys younger than me; as I aged, so did my likes.

I feel straight most of the time, but I see where you're coming from. I feel I can connect better with guys. Woman can be a pain.

Im not gay. But i do find it easier to make friends with another male rather than a female. That's because guys dont talk as much/show as much emotion so theres really not a whole lot of drama, just good old fashioned companionship

You're all faggots