Thread: The Real Problem With Homosexuality

Brain structure certainly plays a role in sexual orientation, and from what information I have happened upon, it would seem as if the same qualities that make someone homosexual can make someone resemble the opposite sex psychologically. I'm sure they do to an extent. However, The gay men I have met don't behave much like women relationship wise. I honestly think gay culture makes men appear more effeminate than they are. In the same respect that straight men try to act tough, I think that openly gay men will affiliate themselves with feminine interests and mannerisms.

anyway, to respond to the main point of your thread: It is not my belief that a happy relationship depends heavily on the union of male and female characteristics. Too much importance is given to this aspect of relationships. It is mostly an excuse to deny gay people rights. It's true that women prefer manly men and men prefer womanly women for the most part, but gay men are looking for men, and I think that is what they will find, maybe with a dash of woman, but still plenty man enough. The same idea goes for lesbians too.

Originally Posted by Redeyedwolfking

It is not my belief that a happy relationship depends heavily on the union of male and female characteristics. Too much importance is given to this aspect of relationships.

Admittedly I picked most of these ideas up from spiritual theories, but I simply assume that they are innately natural because it seems so obvious that masculinity and femininity need to co-exist to survive. It has been the same way since the dawn of man. It is like a balancing force. Unless you have special people with specific interests, I would have thought it works the same way in relationships. But if I was wrong and it is simply an overexaggerated false dichotomy enforced by religion, then that is... well, simply mind blowing. Then we would be suggesting that really, the only thing enforcing the gender gap is physical attraction. And then, once Hard Wired has got his subliminalismus going we'll all be in love with each other. This would... perhaps be a better world. As long as you can bitch slap envy into submission rather like men do with women in Islam. And, if you ask me that's the only real dismissal of the masculine/feminine balance in history.

Update: I found an interesting statistic that approximately 30-67% of gay men have no quarrel with polyamory. Or maybe it was 30% involved, 67% open to it or something like that. This probably comes from the subculture because I thought that a natural effeminite mind would be just as hostile to the idea of polyamory as the female mind, and in general men have a better time embracing it. But, I'm not going to complain. If the proportions I mentioned in my starting post are correct; this is one potential way of providing lasting emotional stability to a lot of gay people, if they know they can handle it.