Thread: The Real Problem With Homosexuality

Originally Posted by Idolfan

It doesn't make sense to me that I can be of a masculine archetype and still be attracted to men. And it makes even less sense that I could be of a masculine archetype and actually be seeking another masculine type person. That is the confusing part (about people in general, not myself). The first instance tells us that at least the part of the brain that deals with physical attraction must be different from whatever determines your gender personality, but I am completely lost as to the second instance. I am saying it doesn't make sense because it really doesn't. Usually, two partners compliment each other in their features. How can this happen when they are of the same gender psychologically? That's what I am trying to figure out. You've got to admit it is a bit of a mystery.

With all that said, I was reffering to it not making sense that homosexual relationships would have just as high a success rate as heterosexual ones. And if it does, I really want to understand how and why.

The human brain has not been completely mapped yet, and there are still lots of things that we don't understand about it. Your theory, from what I can hear, asserts that we know all there is to know about the human brain, which we clearly don't.

Simply put, all the questions you're asking cannot be answered with a proper scientifical answer right now, because nobody really knows what the answer is.

I believe I'm a bisexual myself, and what I've found, is that I put on a manly personality and appearance when I'm headed for girls, and what I want in a girl is just a normal feminine person. When it comes to boys, I put on a feminine act and appearance (when I say appearance I mean body language) and what I want in a boy is pretty much the same.

Doesn't make sense I guess?

With all that said, I was reffering to it not making sense that homosexual relationships would have just as high a success rate as heterosexual ones. And if it does, I really want to understand how and why.

First: Why do you need to know this? Why do you need to know so much about all this? Why can't you just live with it?

Second: Nobody can give you a concrete answer.