Originally Posted by Camburn
While most of my dreams are NOT boring, many can be. I mean, think about it. Think of the movie inception or maybe, a billionaire that could buy anything. What fun is there in that? Sure, I can choose to fly, I can choose to have many beautiful women appear or whatever but when you know it’s a dream, it’s just not the same.
This is the first I've seen of this thread, and there is far too much for me to get caught up on. I've only read the first page, but I particularly wanted to comment on this, because it seems to be the main problem that people with your 'condition' seem to have. (And yes, there are a few people who have come here saying that they have the same problem.)
My issue with this is that it implies that the problem is not with the dreaming. The problem is with the fundamental refusal to allow yourself to enjoy something, simply because it is a dream. You have talked about working out problems, learning languages, etc. What about, pure, whimsical fantasy? Even when you threw out an example of such, it was pretty generic (being able to buy anything; summoning all the women you want; etc.). Are you into fiction at all? Go slay dragons. Lead an armada into an intergalactic war. Crawl into a storm drain and journey to the center of the Earth. Snowboard down a floating mountain. Something. Just because you know that it's all a dream, doesn't mean you have to try to assume control over everything. Let your subconscious present its own surprises to you. Just be 'you,' and explore all of the corners of your mind. If you feel that you have explored every scene, situation and aspect of dreaming, I would say that you are thinking too small. Read some adventure books. Watch some sci-fi. Expand your adventurous horizons. The more you do this, the more you realize that the only thing keeping you 'bored' with lucid dreaming is your lack of ideas.
Going back to 'knowing it's all a dream.' Do you enjoy a story less, because you know you're reading a fictional tale? Do you enjoy an action movie less, because you know they are just characters played by normal people? Does the lack of hyper-realism in a video game (or, simply the knowledge that it is just a game) inhibit your enjoyment of the game? It seems to me that this is the same type of problems. When I'm lucid, I am fully aware that none of it is real, but I allow myself to 'go with' the experience. I let my DC's act the way my subconscious directs them. I let my surroundings play out as my subconscious would conduct it. I typically 'change' very little, outside of 'my own' abilities and actions. In every task, in every encounter or battle scenario, I am met with mysteries and surprises, because my subconscious just has so much input (books, movies, games, etc.) with which to keep me guessing.
Now, if I wasn't an imaginative, whimsical, head-in-the-clouds, adventure loving head case, my dreams would be pretty boring, too. It would be so much harder to think of something to do, consciously. Instead, my subconscious tends to just present these amazing scenarios to me, and I dive right into them to see where the lead. In so many other cases, though, a little dream incubation helps me present myself with newer and fresher scenarios. You should really try to branch out a bit and give yourself more ideas to try.
Someone who gets bored in the playground of their own mind, is probably just sitting in the corner of the sandbox.
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Also, the reason you are waking up tired probably has more to do with the fact that you're waking up multiple times per night, than it does with the fact that you're lucid dreaming. It's most likely that your having trouble sleeping is the reason you are lucid so often, not the other way around.
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