Hi Nasgul, what you are wanting to do does not come easy. We call our subconscious dream guides and it's not easy to find your dream guide they only turn up when they ((your subconscious)) believe you are ready. It seems to me that this woman is just a normal dream character who agrees with what you say and just talks nonsense or can't talk atall. If it was your subconscious talking to you it wouldn't have any problems, it knows more about you than you do yourself, they are pretty damn clever and amazing. When ever you are lucid just call for your dream guide if you are ready it will appear to you if not then you may see nothing atall or just a daft rambling dream character that can't string a sentence together, good luck in your search but maybe your just not ready to meet your other self yet