Feeling the unfelt(18+)

**chadol** · 07-14-2014 02:11 PM

What the Title Says.
So, if I were 14(which was like, 10 years ago?) and I masturbated, and didn't experience sex, what would having sex in lucid dreaming feel like?
Now, I know but got me curious. Will it be what I believe it to be? Or does it imitate the closest thing to it(ex. masturbating with lubes..?)

**vudooscience** · 07-14-2014 05:00 PM

I remember being younger and kissing someone in a dream before I had in reality. It felt wrong and repulsive. It was all wet and sloppy (in a bad way). Everything felt heavy and forced and gross. But after I finally had my first reality kiss, dream kissing felt more pleasant. The same happened for sex. But, none of these were lucid dreams.

I've never experienced sex with a woman in reality. I've had sex with a woman in lucid dreams, and it was beyond exceptional.
I'm sure my brain believed having sex with a woman to be comparable to masturbation.

**Hitokage** · 07-14-2014 07:14 PM

Well I think your brain simulates stuff like that and uses every info you have stored in your memory plus something from your body nature.

**LDman** · 07-14-2014 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by vudooscience

I remember being younger and kissing someone in a dream before I had in reality. It felt wrong and repulsive. It was all wet and sloppy (in a bad way). Everything felt heavy and forced and gross. But after I finally had my first reality kiss, dream kissing felt more pleasant. The same happened for sex. But, none of these were lucid dreams.

I've never experienced sex with a woman in reality. I've had sex with a woman in lucid dreams, and it was beyond exceptional.
I'm sure my brain believed having sex with a woman to be comparable to masturbation.

Weird, a few weeks ago I had a dream where I kissed someone and I quiet liked it, haven't kissed anyone IRL yet though.

**SinisterDezz** · 07-14-2014 10:49 PM

Originally Posted by LDman

Weird, a few weeks ago I had a dream where I kissed someone and I quiet liked it, haven't kissed anyone IRL yet though.

This.

**vudooscience** · 07-14-2014 11:02 PM

Originally Posted by LDman

Weird, a few weeks ago I had a dream where I kissed someone and I quiet liked it, haven't kissed anyone IRL yet though.

Really? Interesting.
Sort of the same thing also happens to me when it comes to physical violence. Every time I try to punch someone in my dreams, just feels like my arm is a huge swollen ten pound noodle. I just assumed it's because I had never truly hit someone IRL, so my brain didn't really know how to translate the information.

**balban** · 07-15-2014 12:56 AM

I had a conversation with someone who was blind from birth and I asked him what he "saw" when he dreams. His answer was that he saw them how they felt to him. After about a 1/2 hour of trying to explain it to me, we both just gave up believing that neither of us would really understand it. He did say one thing that left an impression with me though. He said that his brain just fills in the holes in his experiences. I suspect this is what happens if you experience something in a dream that you've never experienced IRL - you just imagine what it would feel like based upon other experiences you've had that are similar.

**vudooscience** · 07-15-2014 02:04 AM

Originally Posted by balban

I had a conversation with someone who was blind from birth and I asked him what he "saw" when he dreams. His answer was that he saw them how they felt to him. After about a 1/2 hour of trying to explain it to me, we both just gave up believing that neither of us would really understand it. He did say one thing that left an impression with me though. He said that his brain just fills in the holes in his experiences. I suspect this is what happens if you experience something in a dream that you've never experienced IRL - you just imagine what it would feel like based upon other experiences you've had that are similar.

I believe this is true. I've done things in my lucid dreams like acid trip, para sail, and go to France, none of which I've ever done IRL. But my brain created the experiences based on similar experiences I've had.

**LDman** · 07-15-2014 09:10 AM

Originally Posted by vudooscience

Really? Interesting.
Sort of the same thing also happens to me when it comes to physical violence. Every time I try to punch someone in my dreams, just feels like my arm is a huge swollen ten pound noodle. I just assumed it's because I had never truly hit someone IRL, so my brain didn't really know how to translate the information.

I can't fight in my dream either, when I try to punch it's like my arm goes through thick mud instead of air and the impact is just so silly it makes my opponent laugh at me.