This happens pretty often (and as you seem to have read, it happens to a lot of people). I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that we are struggling with a 'logic center' in our brain that is generally off, when we are dreaming. There are times when I have a lot of trouble flying/levitating, and I've come to the conclusion that our subconscious mind is constantly trying to get us to adhere to waking world norms. For instance; I sink when trying to fly, because my subconscious mind is telling me that there is supposed to be gravity. Even when we know we are dreaming, that element of 'logical doubt' is still rattling around in our heads.
I think it is the same for many dream characters, because our logical mind is portraying them as other people, so they naturally respond as a normal person would in waking life (by denying that they are your dream character).
Getting this to happen less often may come with experience and confidence, but don't let it discourage you. It is very common and, to be honest, I tend to enjoy proving those types of characters wrong.
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