So you want to have a relationship with a girl...in your dreams? |
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I actually wanna try this when I dream. I feel really lonely at school. Nearly every girl thinks I'm like shit because, of things which have happened in the past and I'm damn well fed up with it. I really want to find someone who loves me for who I am. I think that lucid dreaming might be close enough to achieveing this. I just hope that it doesn't sound like I'm a saddo cos I'm not! |
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WILD= 7
LD= 14
DILD= 6
FILD= 1
Lucid tasks of the month= 3
So you want to have a relationship with a girl...in your dreams? |
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Yh, do you think it would work? |
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WILD= 7
LD= 14
DILD= 6
FILD= 1
Lucid tasks of the month= 3
I don't know. Dreams are dreams. They are not reality. Sure you can try to LD about the same girl every night, but I don't see how this is any different than having an imaginary friend. |
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its not. But it would just have to do for the time being, at least until I get outta this school. |
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WILD= 7
LD= 14
DILD= 6
FILD= 1
Lucid tasks of the month= 3
if your talking about having a relationship with a dream girl then well, i suggest you find a real girl no offense cause its MUCH more healthy mentally to have a relationship with something that is real and not imagined |
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I would rather die on my feet then to live on my knees.
I'm 15. Your right, I just feel lonely but, it should work for now right? |
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WILD= 7
LD= 14
DILD= 6
FILD= 1
Lucid tasks of the month= 3
yea just, take my advice, dont get attached, cause dream girls i assume are everything and anything you want them to be, they are perfect, but in reality, no such girl is perfect |
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I would rather die on my feet then to live on my knees.
WTF???? Speaking in circles lol. Look all I'm saying is to try it out. Oh, what if I asked her how I can be a better person to attract girls or what my furture will be like? |
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WILD= 7
LD= 14
DILD= 6
FILD= 1
Lucid tasks of the month= 3
the thing is, in lucid dreams from what ive read, ive never had 1 yet, is composed of all your collective thoughts and conciousness and experiences |
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I would rather die on my feet then to live on my knees.
I heard the that you can. Lds can tell you answers about yourself, you just have to understand the message. Anyway I'm gonna try it now. Good luck with LDing. |
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WILD= 7
LD= 14
DILD= 6
FILD= 1
Lucid tasks of the month= 3
yea, luck is what i need just right now, i cant even dream sometimes! |
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I would rather die on my feet then to live on my knees.
Lol I just remembered my attempt... she first got kidnapped by a local church and once I rescued her she melted away. I haven't seen her since. I guess it just wan't meant to be. It's funny how you can actually fall in love with a dream girl. |
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Falling in love in dreams.. I do not recommend it unless you are sure you'll see her again |
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LDs: 3Originally Posted by italianmonkey
DILD(s) = 3
Third one was really short and unstable
Phonix, |
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Phonix, I have never had much luck with finding the same DC twice in a row in my lucids, much less developing a relationship with one. Really I can't even hardly go to the same place twice, even places that seem familiar, and a DC would be much more complex than a location. So I think it would be very hard to maintain a DC like that. |
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@Moonbeam: My situation is the opposite! I often see the same dream characters if I expect or plan to see them, but the location most often changes! |
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Abraxas
Originally Posted by OldSparta
Abraxas
Originally Posted by OldSparta
Saddo? That's what I mean about people who persue lucid dreaming...they think they are being pathetic by persuing something that's not real. U should change Ur attitude about it or it may become a limiting factor to what U want to achieve. Since U already have a purpose for becoming lucid in the dream....it should be successful for U because it will help greatly if U have an ultimate goal for using it, means U can't simply give up without putting up a fight to achieve what U want.... |
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Last edited by imj; 02-13-2008 at 05:21 AM.
BIG HINT(literately) |
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Just wanted to add a bit to what Elwood said. I'm not much of an LDer yet, but I am a fairly experienced psychonaut and from the things that I've learned through that in conjunction w/ RL, I would have to definitely warn against trying to sustain a relationship with someone that you created for yourself, unless you're familiar enough with real people to give her plenty of defects. Otherwise, you'll find that no girl IRL will ever possibly measure up to the standards of that perfect dream girl of yours and live in a state of perpetual disappointment with your RL relationships. Which, of course = mucho no bueno. |
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Thank you very much for that, its a nice twist in the tale for me |
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WILD= 7
LD= 14
DILD= 6
FILD= 1
Lucid tasks of the month= 3
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