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      Quote Originally Posted by Idolfan View Post
      I think it is largely genetic. The main argument is as to whether upbringing can influence it in any way, this way we could just teach rather than breed people!
      I tend to take the side of "nurture" rather than "nature." People may be more inclined or have more of an aptitude for certain subjects, but that potential alone is not going to make them great at something. Someone who is naturally talented with math isn't going to suddenly start spouting off the quadratic equation without some instruction.

      Lucid dreaming is "taught," either by focused conscious effort or through personal experience, in the same way learning that a stove-top is hot (you can either hear about it from someone, or burn yourself).

      My theory on dreams has to deal with importance. If something is important to you, you're more likely to remember it or work at/towards it, etc. Most people in today's society don't place much importance on dreams, so they tend to not remember them except under either extraordinary or random circumstances. A child usually finds them fascinating. A child also has few other responsibilities in their life to keep them from making that a priority. A child is also constantly experiencing new things, so the dream world remains an exciting and curious place.

      Learning to re-build one's dream recall requires re-discovering one's excitement and curiosity and the willingness to make it a priority. Even someone with little propensity/potential to be a lucid dreamer can achieve it with some hard work.

      As for losing the ability to dream and/or lucid dream, it will only go away once it loses its importance or the brain/mind is altered in such a way that one's ability to dream is taken away.

      "If there was one thing the lucid dreaming ninja writer could not stand, it was used car salesmen."

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      Quote Originally Posted by Amethyst Star View Post
      Lucid dreaming is "taught," either by focused conscious effort or through personal experience, in the same way learning that a stove-top is hot (you can either hear about it from someone, or burn yourself).

      My theory on dreams has to deal with importance.
      This seems fairly congruent with what I've heard while talking to many "natural" lucid dreamers. An often recurring theme is that they used to be plagued by terrible nightmares - something which I'm sure was a very important issue to them at the time - and it was through these experiences that they learned to consistently recognize the dream state.

      Although, on the other hand...
      Quote Originally Posted by Amethyst Star View Post
      Someone who is naturally talented with math isn't going to suddenly start spouting off the quadratic equation without some instruction.
      It has happened.

      Anyway, it's undoubtedly a combination of both, but it seems likely that "nurture" is a bigger factor.

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      Quote Originally Posted by DuB View Post
      This seems fairly congruent with what I've heard while talking to many "natural" lucid dreamers. An often recurring theme is that they used to be plagued by terrible nightmares - something which I'm sure was a very important issue to them at the time - and it was through these experiences that they learned to consistently recognize the dream state.

      Although, on the other hand...It has happened.

      Anyway, it's undoubtedly a combination of both, but it seems likely that "nurture" is a bigger factor.
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      i actually think lucid dreaming will increase. with helpful products like the Nova Dreamer, i think more people will be able to lucid dream. and i think interest is slowely spreading. like if i talk about lucid dreaming to 7 people and 2 find it interesting, the idea is spreading.
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      Quote Originally Posted by DuB View Post
      An often recurring theme is that they used to be plagued by terrible nightmares - something which I'm sure was a very important issue to them at the time - and it was through these experiences that they learned to consistently recognize the dream state.
      But I was also plagued by nightmares, and never recognized the dream state. What does that mean? And I have loved dreaming my entire life. You'd think it'd be easier for me to become lucid, especially with the large amounts of time I spend asleep and dreaming and in that dream state! I suck hahaha

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      Quote Originally Posted by i make it rain View Post
      i actually think lucid dreaming will increase. with helpful products like the Nova Dreamer, i think more people will be able to lucid dream. and i think interest is slowely spreading. like if i talk about lucid dreaming to 7 people and 2 find it interesting, the idea is spreading.
      My mom (who loves dreaming too, we always talk about my attempts to LD and she actually had one the other night because of that) was on a blind date with an extremely boring guy. After exhausting how one anothers' food was, she asked him, "So what do you think about lucid dreaming? Have you ever had one?" and he responded, "Oh, yes! I mean, I think so. What is that?" hahaha Maybe the next guy she talks to hahaha

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      Quote Originally Posted by Shift View Post
      My mom (who loves dreaming too, we always talk about my attempts to LD and she actually had one the other night because of that) was on a blind date with an extremely boring guy. After exhausting how one anothers' food was, she asked him, "So what do you think about lucid dreaming? Have you ever had one?" and he responded, "Oh, yes! I mean, I think so. What is that?" hahaha Maybe the next guy she talks to hahaha
      we LDers should start a "pay it forward" thing. every person we tell about LDing should be required to tell someone else. haha.
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      We just all have to be sure our reproductive mates are good at lucid dreaming. That would be a fun question for the first date.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Robot_Butler View Post
      We just all have to be sure our reproductive mates are good at lucid dreaming. That would be a fun question for the first date.
      hahaha, exactly

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      Quote Originally Posted by Robot_Butler View Post
      We just all have to be sure our reproductive mates are good at lucid dreaming. That would be a fun question for the first date.
      If we're keeping lucid dreaming alive, hypothetically, it would be best to set up non-lucid dreamers with lucid dreamers because if at least one parent LDs their offspring can learn of it.
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      Quote Originally Posted by luciddream View Post
      If we're keeping lucid dreaming alive, hypothetically, it would be best to set up non-lucid dreamers with lucid dreamers because if at least one parent LDs their offspring can learn of it.
      Well, only if the ability to lucid dream is a dominant trait! If it's recessive, you'd want 2 LDers. There's the chance you could have a heterozygote, but if it's recessive you'd want to just have two homozygotes for maximum probability.

      Of course, look at polydactylism haha

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      Quote Originally Posted by Shift View Post
      Well, only if the ability to lucid dream is a dominant trait! If it's recessive, you'd want 2 LDers. There's the chance you could have a heterozygote, but if it's recessive you'd want to just have two homozygotes for maximum probability.

      Of course, look at polydactylism haha
      i think he assumed that LDing is not hereditary, but as long as a member of a family can do it, he or she can maybe get the rest interested.
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      Quote Originally Posted by i make it rain View Post
      i think he assumed that LDing is not hereditary, but as long as a member of a family can do it, he or she can maybe get the rest interested.
      Oh haha, I thought we were still talking about "breeding" lucid dreamers

      I think it really depends on the people, though. My dad is a natural, but never told me until recently, when I explained that I'd experienced something called lucid dreaming and was trying to learn it. My sister is also a natural, but neither one of them is particularly interested in it. In fact my mom, who has had only a few, loves dreaming and is a vivid dreamer like me, and I think she's motivated me more than the other two, but I think mainly because I'm the one who is always talking to her about dreaming! And my brother never remembers his dreams, and is not particularly interested in dreaming at all. I think it depends on your personality, more than anything.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Idolfan View Post
      As far as I can see, animals that dream are designed to forget them as a key survivial mechanism.
      That's unfounded blahblah. It is not even known if animals dream at all.

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      This clearly comes from the days when we were too stupid to distinguish them from reality.
      Is that so? And what makes you think dreams are not real? What makes you think that this moment in which you are reading this response is more real? There is no indication.

      Quote Originally Posted by Idolfan View Post
      I have confidence that plenty of mammals may be able to tell them apart too, but still, advanced as we are, it seems a miracle we can remember dreams at all if this is the case. LDing is an amazing thing, but unfortionately the majority of people don't see it this way.
      That's because they were indoctrinated that dreams are unreal farts of the subconscious and that this commonly shared environment that is defined by science is more real. The same indoctrination that seems to apply to you as well. We may have to deal with this reality, but it's not the only one we exist in and I'm not doing esoterics here. The priests of old times have been replaced by modern scientists. What do they have in common? They can only make up theories based on axiomatic belief systems but they simply cannot explain anything. It just happens that society accepts them more than priests today. That wasn't always the case and it doesn't make much of a difference.

      Quote Originally Posted by Idolfan View Post
      Possibly over time, what if people were to completely lose the ability to LD? It's unlikely, but still possible. Seeing as few people care about it it's not hard to imagine the technique may be lost. As our minds advance (or not, it's probably going the other way), the ability to remember dreams or even be conscious in them could just fade away.

      Scary thought?
      What if we all get blind or start laying eggs or get born with additional nipples in our armpits?

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      "REM sleep decreases as you get older" says science. REM sleep is highly correlated with dreaming.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Idolfan View Post
      As far as I can see, animals that dream are designed to forget them as a key survivial mechanism. This clearly comes from the days when we were too stupid to distinguish them from reality. I have confidence that plenty of mammals may be able to tell them apart too, but still, advanced as we are, it seems a miracle we can remember dreams at all if this is the case. LDing is an amazing thing, but unfortionately the majority of people don't see it this way.

      Possibly over time, what if people were to completely lose the ability to LD? It's unlikely, but still possible. Seeing as few people care about it it's not hard to imagine the technique may be lost. As our minds advance (or not, it's probably going the other way), the ability to remember dreams or even be conscious in them could just fade away.

      Scary thought?
      Interesting, but how I look at it as I don't think animals LD. I mean, we got it for a reason. I doubt many people before we discovered did it. More people are discovering LDing as in forever. I don't think its going away.

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      Quote Originally Posted by psychology student View Post
      "REM sleep decreases as you get older" says science. REM sleep is highly correlated with dreaming.
      No, it isn't. That's what was believed in the not so distant past. Usually people can recall dreams from lighter sleep states more easily though. That may have caused that assumption. A lot of factors take influence on memory though.

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      Yes, REM sleep is highly correlated with dreaming. That is not to say that REM causes dreaming, or that dreaming cannot occur without REM.

      I am aware of the recent developments in research that say that dreaming may be caused by frontal brain areas. Also, that it may be closely related to Dopamine levels as opposed to Pons activity and REM sleep. Notwithstanding, this does not negate my initial statement.

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      Quote Originally Posted by psychology student View Post
      Yes, REM sleep is highly correlated with dreaming. That is not to say that REM causes dreaming, or that dreaming cannot occur without REM.

      I am aware of the recent developments in research that say that dreaming may be caused by frontal brain areas. Also, that it may be closely related to Dopamine levels as opposed to Pons activity and REM sleep. Notwithstanding, this does not negate my initial statement.
      Well, sleep in general is highly correlated with dreaming and older people tend to sleep less. So what? Why exactly did you mention the REM phase in the context of this thread? And why exactly do you repeat the other information given above? You feel like you have to prove anything?

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      Dreams occur more often in REM than in any other type of sleep. This was relevant because REM and subsequently dreaming decline with age, hence "What if we lose the ability"

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