Wow, interesting topic. I've heard others claim the same and have a hard time with it but I don't really think the OP is lying. Now how could that be? So you have both sides, some claiming BS and some agreeing, some in the middle. There has to be an explanation that includes both sides, so here is a theory:
The big difference here may be that people are looking at the world two different ways. Some people may have success in life and say "I did it." While others may have success in life and say, "I am skilled, but I was also lucky and in the right place at the right time." And on the spectrum it can go all the way down to "hard luck, fate rules my life" (born into a third world country with bad circumstances and occurances perhaps?). Now the first one has this peculiar ability to forget their failures and move on, while being very confident.
Throw this mixture into the dream world. He has said if he's tired or something he wont go lucid "because he doesn't want to" and that's true. Deep down, his body/self/mind doesn't want to bother as it is tired, but could he force it? Probably not, but that doesn't go along with his desires either.
So yes, what he says is true in the context of his own worldview. But to people of different personality types and different worldviews will find this hard to believe. Because they view the world in a different way. He's not really accomplishing anything he wants according to their worldview, but his.
If I were trying to quickly find out if I could do absolutely anything in a dream, I'd try to do something I didn't think I could do to find out. This type of dreamer doesn't think that way. This type of dreamer will only try to do things that are "in tune" with his/her will and desire. To go outside of that is unthinkable, there isn't any "code" for that in their mind. This is the successful person dreaming, they are very in tune with what they are capable of and almost magically that is in tune with what they want to do.
So at the end of the day it's like the question, "Can God make a rock so heavy he can't lift it?" It really does open up some philosophical question. As if those of us who are limited must have some inherent ability to be so, and those who cannot find limits don't have that particular skill. As if limitation were an ability in itself.
Objectively however, he will be a very able dreamer, extremely able. He will be able to do things folks like me can't "dream" of doing. Subjectively though, he's sort of trapped in his own game, like a wheelbarrow rut, he can't easily escape his lack of limits. Or maybe he can. 
I've always wanted to open this can of worms, lol. Hope it makes sense
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