Originally Posted by savage
I took adderall for add/adhd but only for a week cuz it made me feel paranoid and depressed and was givin me heart problems. but that was month ago but other then that i feel fine. usually one would think.that if they thought someone was looking at them they would look and see no one looking at them and just think ok I'm just paranoid but no in my case i feel someone looking at me and i know the exact location they are,and we end up lookin at each other
If I am standing at a spot (like a bus stop) and someone else is approaching the same spot, it is likely that person will look at me. They will be looking at their destination, and seeing another person there they will look me over to decide if I am someone worth talking to or if they should avoid me, hence they will be staring in my direction. If I then look at them in return (because I became aware of their gaze) we will be looking at each other and its possible I would feel like they were staring at me, while they were thinking the same thing.
Because of our peripheral vision it's easy to become aware of people moving around to our side, and when we look at someone, regardless of the setting, the probability is high that we will be stared at by the other person.
Small changes in light in our surroundings make us aware of these people moving around or towards us. Some people will tell you that you're psychic, and that you were detecting their thought waves or some other unmeasurable force, and I concede that the possibility exists, but I'm more inclined to believe that your eye caught a glimpse of movement from a direction where you would normally expect movement even if you couldn't see anyone coming, and as you turned to see the person approaching your gazes locked together and the situation becomes uncomfortable.
So...when you lock gazes and everything becomes awkward, what are your exact thoughts about the other person?
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