Quote Originally Posted by CanisLucidus View Post
First of all, congratulations on what sounds like a really nice lucid dream!! The sudden problem with your motivation was strange. We'll get to that in a second.

Most of all, I'm glad that your motivation came back. Particularly because when I read that first message that having a lucid dream caused your motivation to evaporate (!!) ... I had no idea what to tell you! Definitely outside of the range of my experience to say the least!

My best general advice is to really savor every victory. Learn from your setbacks but then just let them lie. Never dwell on them. But those victories? Keep shamelessly congratulating yourself on them, keep enjoying them, and just relish that experience every time you have it. Go ahead and wear a smile. You've earned it!

Remember that very few people are fortunate enough to find their way to lucid dreaming! Congratulations on being among them.

Thanks CanisLucidus,you just made me feel the real value of having lucid dreams.
here's the dream
I'am in my house, I go up stairs to my room's balcony to see what's happening out side (related to the non-lucid part) when i suddenly remember to do my ADA exercise.
I proceed to do what i usually do, every thing seems remarkebly vived, but when I try to remember what I was doing before all of this I fail to remember,so I pinch my nose and i can breath from one side but i can't from the other, although I'am sure that I'am in a dream I do a hand RC just to be sure. I count seven fingres in my right hand and four in my left hand.
I try to remember my goals and instantly remember the TOTEM, but for some reason I find it uninteresting, so I try to remember my other lucid goals when I see a beautiful girl out side, I can see that she is going into my house, I wonder why so I get down stairs when I see here,without a warning she gives me a kiss ,it was really really REALLY cold, I then suddenly lose my vision and I think I'am going to wake up but i don't, I am now in a dark place, I can't see clearly but I'am able to see some dark entites,they attack me, but I don't remember what happens next.

this lucid was very vived it makes me always question reality even it feels like reality. It's amazing what the human mind is capable of doing.