another update with good news!
I had 2 DILDs last night/this morning! making my 4th and 5th LD

The 4th one was much much longer, more vivid, an very stable, I didn't even have to do the stabilization at the beginning this time. it just stayed well. I think it may have to do with the melatonin i took. it seems to keep those early morning dreams vivid and stable while the REM rebound is happening. ill post the link below. this dream is more "vulgar" than any of my previous though. has sexual stuff in it but they are in spoiler tabs for those who would prefer not to read them.

5th was short, but it was still cool being able to observe my environment more and more while lucid.

here is the link:
Lucid 4 and 5!DILD 3 and 4 (March 19, 2015) How I expected my early Lucids would be like - Dream Journals - Lucid Dreaming - Dream Views