Well I just joined this website, and just found out about lucid dreaming a couple of hours ago (maybe 1?). At 1st when i read about it i was saying no way in hell am i doing this (way too scared) but so far from what i read, nothing bad can happen from this correct?

Seeing as how it takes 3-4 weeks (or longer) to do this, and i am accepting the fact i will be failing what are the best methods to start? how long would it be before i could start "controlling" my dreams atleast a little?

Also i'm currently in a online relationship (for 3 years) i turned 18 this year and am going to FINALLY meet this girl later this year, lets say if i was good enough with LD, could i specificly dream up a scenerio of us meeting for the 1st time and see how my mind would play it out?

Also what are some keywords i should know? like LD for example.

P.S: This is blowing my mind O_O i never thought this would be possible, you know knowing your asleep and dreaming and actually being able to do something....