Lucid dreaming is something that takes a long time to obtain, it has a high learning curve. If you are willing to wait out that curve you will be very satisfied with yourself. If you cant get it working for yourself take a break from it maybe? I found that the time i obsessed about it 4 years ago (reading mostly) has helped me out recently when i picked lucid dreaming back up. I have the knowledge from before, and now the patience from personal growth.

Basicaly all im saying is be patient it will come i promise it is totaly worth it. I can compare nothing too it, it is an exhillerating feeling that i wish everyone would experience at least once. like all things in life patience pays off
Good Luck!
-Silence