I found out more about lucid dreaming to realize i had done it b4...

**DobeyThecat** · 09-14-2013 12:29 PM

My name is Ted im 19 years old, to be able to control ones dreams sounded like such a great thing to me since i dream almost every night and if i could do what i wanted seems very appealing but as i listen to youtubers talk about sleep paralysis i recalled this one time i was trying to fall asleep so i just layed there not moving trying to make my self fall asleep when eventually i decided to give up, i tried to get up only to realize i couldnt move... i began to panick, i thought i heard a whisper, there was an invisible struggle as i tried as hard as i could to move at all and i couldnt budge i thought the devil/a demon was holding me down all of a sudden my legs moved and i stood as fast as i could moving all my limbs and hurried to my parents room just to find comfort in their nearness, ive realized now many years later that i was just in sleep-paralysis. and i also heard dreams can be fake memories and i have 2 childhood "dreams/nightmares/memories" that are more vivid in my mind than any other recollection of my past, i feel these might be lucid dreams

im now scared of the whole thing... ive written 'ichiban' on my hand which is japanese for the best or number one and i keep staring at it to make sure im awake cuz now im afraid to go to sleep... im not usually an emotional guy but all these experiences have been some of the scariest of my life and as i type this tears well up in my eyes just thinking of my childhood nightmares that i can almost recall every part of...

a big part of me is conquering obstacles and seeing myself as the hero in some story beating the bad guy so i want to beat this lucid dream thing and be scared no more, but i cant try it as i type this cuz even as i walk around my house awake im scared to open doors cuz i feel the devil character from my childhood dreams is going to be standing right on the other side

i know that i shouldnt be scared ive been awake for a long time, i got of the night shift of my job and im just sitting here letting my mind run away with itself

but as the sun rises and the noises of early morning life i feel better already im gunna yolo this shit and im going to try sleep paralysis right now for the first time intentionally

wish me luck

,your new dream pal
ted

**JoannaB** · 09-18-2013 10:33 PM

Ted, Welcome to DV! Please keep in mind that with dreams, expectations play a huge role. If you are scared of something, it is more likely to be scary. So relax, and change your expectations if you can. Tell yourself that in dreams or in the hypnagogia in that in-between stage between waking and sleeping, nothing can really hurt you. It is all in your mind. And you can be in control of it. Or at least aware of it and knowing it cannot harm you. Relax and then you are much more likely to get a positive experience.

**fogelbise** · 09-19-2013 01:08 AM

DobeyThecat, I think you can turn this into a positive. First, I am in agreement with JoannaB. My theory is that your dreaming mind will make up a scenario to explain what you are feeling and it can be influenced by stress, fear or positive things to create a positive scenario. Some people tend to get scary stuff when they can't move, but everyone seems to see something different whether it is a wolf, ghost, dark figure, rapist, alien, demon, whatever your mind comes up with to explain why you can't move. One time my mind tricked me into thinking I had a dark figure over me and I just imagined it was Victoria's secret model I had seen on tv and, voila! I turned that into a positive.

The other way you can turn this into a positive is that it seems that due to you being "now scared of the whole thing" you are probably super aware of your surroundings and may be questioning whether or not you are dreaming. That is a great time to do a few different reality checks. If you are walking around your house or just laying down to bed and you feel that fear do those reality checks. Most people have trouble doing reality checks where they really question whether they are dreaming when they are actually awake...so you may have a leg up in that situation.