Hi,

The key role in your problem might be expectation perhaps?
You need to belive and be confident that reality check will prove that your dreaming
Whenever your planning to do reality check be sure that it will prove that your dreaming. Be confident and be sure that your finger will fly through your hand...
And even if you know that your not dreaming try to belive that you might be actually dreaming and in result do legit as heck reality check...

- Goodluck