LOL! Heh. That's probably the longest first post I've read from a new member! LOL. But it's highly readable nonetheless. LOL. Made me smile, actually...

As for being afraid of being judged... LOL don't worry about it. I've been on quite a few foums before, but I'm here to stay on DV. The community is just so friendly... you'd actually have to put some serious, concerted effort at DV to get any hostile response. LOL.

I've got no problem with bisexuals/lesbians. In fact, to be TOTALLY honest, I find it VERY hard to work out why any females are straight. LOL. That's coming from a man, too... heh. But, nah, I think it's great that you're confident about your sexuality. Too many people are shy and scared about those sorts of things. I'm from New Zealand, BTW, and as far as stuff goes, we're pretty open-minded here when it comes to that sort of thing. We legalised gay marriage a couple of years back, which was quite cool.

As for Lucid Dreaming? It's definitely a skill worth having. It takes a fair bit of work, though, I'm not going to lie. But, very rewarding. I've only had 3 LD's so far, but two of those, the WILDs, were just incredible experiences, even though they didn't last long. If you stick around, and put in some effort... there's no telling what you'll be able to do.

again!