Have you considered becoming an absolute shit? |
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well lots of girls always tell me that I am sweet or that something I say is really sweet or something. Ive come to this conclusion. the only problem with sweet is it gets a lot of girl friends but not always a girlfriend. |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
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Have you considered becoming an absolute shit? |
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While there seems to be some validity to the 'jerk-attraction', there still are a lot of girls that look for the sweet type. And before you change who you are and pretend to be something you're not, I would suggest to keep looking until you find someone that is right for you. Plus you will have a much higher chance of ending up with true intimacy than just shallow attraction. By the way, confidence is more important and you can be confident without being a jerk. |
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You can show a little cockiness without being a jerk, most girls like that. |
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If you're looking for tips, how about becoming quiet and aloof? |
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I don't think it has anything to do with how sweet you are. Maybe you just don't come off manly enough, girls aren't going to ask you out or anything, not usually. So why don't you grow a pair and just ask them out. |
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Im not trying to get a girl right now. It was just a thought that came to my head after a few different girls telling me something I did or said was sweet. Im really not ready yet for another girlfriend after the last one. I was really trying to see if anyone agrees with that thought. |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
I mean the trick is to pull off quiet as an attribute of sophistication rather than stupidity. |
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Its really probably a shyness thing. I dont really like people. But with my friends I can be completely stupid and dont care. |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
I'm guessing she just hasn't found you yet. Don't change yourself just so you can get one faster. This is coming from a girl - I hate it when people act differently just to create more relationships. |
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Im not trying to act differently or anything. Im not gonna change how I act. Is just something that seems true to me at least |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
umm idk if that is sarcasm or not. Its not like i dont have any success at all with girls either. Im not looking for a girlfriend now anyways. I was ith my last gf for almost 2 years thought |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
Im sorry...... HUH? |
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What do you do that's "sweet"? Give us some specific examples. If you're just throwing out compliments you'll come off as more of a kiss-ass and a pushover than anything else. It'll also establish you as being lower on the social hierarchy. You want to be treated as an equal, not a subordinate. |
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Yeah compliments are part of it but its mostly the fact that I always listen to my friends and stuff. If they have any problems I try to help and i am always there if they just need someone to talk to. Also things that just make girls laugh and feel good. Anything that helps. |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
To be honest even your posts are making me feel a bit fuzzy inside. |
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Yeah.. |
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Haha Cryo good. Hows this? she sticks her tounge out "be careful I might bite it". |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
That's just awkward and creepy. My advise is just be yourself, say what you think would be normal and don't push yourself to be more than yourself. |
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That gave me a good laugh! |
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well I said it cuz its happened to me lol. B ut I find it hard to be cocky because Im really not all that confident. I did tell this one girl that I should start working out and try to get some muscles and abs and tyhat if I did that there wouldnt be a girl around that wouldnt like me. She told me she wouldnt like me then because she wouldnt want the competetion lol. |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
Just be yourself, but not too much yourself. Also be better than yourself. You said you are not all that confident. Well you should pretend you are. Everyone likes actors. I think the most important part is to have "pizzazz." It's that unmistakable amorphous x-factor that is so vague you can never be sure if you have it. But if you assume that you have it, you will! If you find this advice causes you to behave in a conflicted fashion, then good. Conflict is the source of all interesting stories and you must be interesting. The less that what you are doing makes sense to you the more likely you are to be successful. |
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hmm so try to use my writing style in real life. I base my characyers in stories off of myself to a point. But they are all the best qualities of myself. and a few made up ones I wish I had. Im a writer and I can sit down and write something that can make someone feel any kind of feeling I want them to feel. But when i speak i have a very slight stutter and I can barely put a sentence together that makes sense. Like how my posts have been lol. |
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I accept that my reality is always a dream so if something changes I know I'm right.
"Later that day......innocent group hugs became an orgy"
-erible :3
Goals go into space [] play blitzball from FFX []
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