Thread: ~ * Ask me about Picking Up Women * ~

Originally Posted by ranma187

Actually, that's worked a couple times. i mean how else is she gonna know? I say don't be a pussy and take risks.

It's worked couple time's? That's great! Now let's see what can work more than a couple times for this guy, I want to offer him only quality proven advice that works more than a couple times.



Taking risk is great, taking a risk when you don't need to, and taking the risk will hurt your chances at achieving your goal..then it's a stupid one to take.


Why ask her if she likes you when you can find out from her actions? Once you find out from her actions if she likes you or not, you progress between you to and turn it into an actual relationship or whatever you desire?


If on the other hand you ask her "do you like me?" and she says "No." then basically you hurt your chances than if you wouldn't have asked her. Don't take unnecessary risk that will only hurt your chances at getting the girl.

I never said "ask her if she likes you". i said "tell her you like her and pay attention to the response she's given you" and the way you handle the response will determine the outcome.

I know how to approach a girl I like and everything and even ask her out...

But, I'm not really sure what to do after I ask her out. What do I do?

Originally Posted by Jorge

It's worked couple time's? That's great! Now let's see what can work more than a couple times for this guy, I want to offer him only quality proven advice that works more than a couple times.



Taking risk is great, taking a risk when you don't need to, and taking the risk will hurt your chances at achieving your goal..then it's a stupid one to take.


Why ask her if she likes you when you can find out from her actions? Once you find out from her actions if she likes you or not, you progress between you to and turn it into an actual relationship or whatever you desire?


If on the other hand you ask her "do you like me?" and she says "No." then basically you hurt your chances than if you wouldn't have asked her. Don't take unnecessary risk that will only hurt your chances at getting the girl.

You need to brush up on your game, man. It's time to stop over analyzing things and stop being a pussy and just do it. If you like a girl, and she says yes, then it's great. But there's too many girls to keep dwelling on one forever and thinking about the counteractions and reactions and all this bullshit.

Like seriously, 'taking risks'?! This isn't life or death, dude. There are a lot of chicks out there, don't just focus on one girl. If you fail or are in the friend zone just move on. It's her loss if a girl doesn't like you back. I'm speaking generally here.


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Originally Posted by Grod

You need to brush up on your game, man. It's time to stop over analyzing things and stop being a pussy and just do it. If you like a girl, and she says yes, then it's great. But there's too many girls to keep dwelling on one forever and thinking about the counteractions and reactions and all this bullshit.

Like seriously, 'taking risks'?! This isn't life or death, dude. There are a lot of chicks out there, don't just focus on one girl. If you fail or are in the friend zone just move on. It's her loss if a girl doesn't like you back. I'm speaking generally here.


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Your taking my "taking risk" way out of proportion. If that works for you then great. You actually do have some useful information from your post.

Never pedestal a girl. Don't put all your time and attention on 1 girl. That is something that's worst and you end up with ' one-itis ' basically you can't get this girl out of your head and you end up getting into a deeper level of feeling attraction for her. You can't stop thinking about her, you will do ANYTHING it takes to get this 1 girl. That my friends is one-itis.


If you are in the friend zone then yes, it is way better to move on and game another chick than to actual get the friend your after.

And if you believe what I'm sharing is Bullshit, then you can never come back to this thread again.


My fellow DV members, if you are wondering if you are over-analyzing you are not. You are simply learning what it takes to get a woman attracted to you and that attraction is very strong towards you.

What I've learned from The Paragon Project, is simply far advanced and some unfortunate people don't understand the concepts behind them. All concepts I teach are to Improve.

Have a good day.

Originally Posted by Jorge

Never pedestal a girl. Don't put all your time and attention on 1 girl. That is something that's worst and you end up with ' one-itis ' basically you can't get this girl out of your head and you end up getting into a deeper level of feeling attraction for her. You can't stop thinking about her, you will do ANYTHING it takes to get this 1 girl. That my friends is one-itis.

You've clearly never met anyone worth fighting for then... I guess I'm in the wrong place. I don't want to 'game girls' as you put it. I would rather have one person worth being with because I cannot get her out of my head, and have just one girl have my attention. But that's just me

Originally Posted by Adam

You've clearly never met anyone worth fighting for then... I guess I'm in the wrong place. I don't want to 'game girls' as you put it. I would rather have one person worth being with because I cannot get her out of my head, and have just one girl have my attention. But that's just me

Yeah I used to to think like that too bro, but look at it this way. Let's say this girl, that's all in your head. All your focus is on her, is all her focus on you? Is she really thinking about you just as much as you are her?

Showing too much interest to a girl when she isn't matching your level of interest your displaying, then you are in for problems.

Say this girl is a really good looking one. She's had guys compliment her all the time. She know's she's goodlooking. Almost all the guys have told her "lets go to dinner" or "lets go to the movies" doing this is not only predicatble but boring! I'm not saying you do that, but have you ever?

You must be that fun, outgoing, guy that the girls will love. Don't be like everyone else and do the predicable things everybody does.

If you think this information is too much, then I wish you bro's luck. If you ever need help, just PM me.


goodluck

You know what ALWAYS works?

The "do I know you from somewhere" line. Man it works like a fucking charm. Only if you're in highschool or college though.

Simple.

It doesn't matter if the girl is in the mall, at the library, or even at work. I've used it all over the place. In fact, I just used it at some chick who worked at Chipotle. It was quite nice.

It goes a little something like this.

Girl: *is looking rather attractive*
Yourself: Hey, you look familiar. Is your name *insert random name*?
Girl: *confused*... No.
Yourself: *slightly questionable* Do you go to *insert local highschool/college*?
Girl: Yes.
Yourself: Okay, crap. I know this girl who looks exactly like you, but I don't know her too well. I know some people from *insert previously stated school*, though. Who do you hang out with?
Girl: *girl talks about several people*
Yourself: *if you know stated people, continue normal conversation, if not, continue random conversation*.

You're in like a pin.

It just takes common ground to start a conversation, when you don't know anyone at all.

Originally Posted by AmazeO XD

You know what ALWAYS works?

The "do I know you from somewhere" line. Man it works like a fucking charm. Only if you're in highschool or college though.

Simple.

It doesn't matter if the girl is in the mall, at the library, or even at work. I've used it all over the place. In fact, I just used it at some chick who worked at Chipotle. It was quite nice.

It goes a little something like this.

Girl: *is looking rather attractive*
Yourself: Hey, you look familiar. Is your name *insert random name*?
Girl: *confused*... No.
Yourself: *slightly questionable* Do you go to *insert local highschool/college*?
Girl: Yes.
Yourself: Okay, crap. I know this girl who looks exactly like you, but I don't know her too well. I know some people from *insert previously stated school*, though. Who do you hang out with?
Girl: *girl talks about several people*
Yourself: *if you know stated people, continue normal conversation, if not, continue random conversation*.

You're in like a pin.

It just takes common ground to start a conversation, when you don't know anyone at all.

I'll try that.

What if she's your best friend, and she has a best friend that is also your friend...I'll give fake names.

I'm Jon. My intrest is Alice. Her friend is Jenny. I'm best freinds with both of them. Jenny knows I like Alice. She doesn't want me to though, because it would be akward. Alice, I don't know if she likes me or not. I'm considering leaving it as it is, so everyone's happy except me, so I take the nut-shot so Alice and Jenny don't have to deal with it. Right desicion or not?

Originally Posted by AmazeO XD

You know what ALWAYS works?

The "do I know you from somewhere" line. Man it works like a fucking charm. Only if you're in highschool or college though.

Simple.

It doesn't matter if the girl is in the mall, at the library, or even at work. I've used it all over the place. In fact, I just used it at some chick who worked at Chipotle. It was quite nice.

It goes a little something like this.

Girl: *is looking rather attractive*
Yourself: Hey, you look familiar. Is your name *insert random name*?
Girl: *confused*... No.
Yourself: *slightly questionable* Do you go to *insert local highschool/college*?
Girl: Yes.
Yourself: Okay, crap. I know this girl who looks exactly like you, but I don't know her too well. I know some people from *insert previously stated school*, though. Who do you hang out with?
Girl: *girl talks about several people*
Yourself: *if you know stated people, continue normal conversation, if not, continue random conversation*.

You're in like a pin.

It just takes common ground to start a conversation, when you don't know anyone at all.

Hey, yeah! That's worked for me in the past quite a few times.

And good advice on fear, that could apply in other places too. Especially for people like me who have trouble deciding things.

Originally Posted by Jorge

And if you believe what I'm sharing is Bullshit, then you can never come back to this thread again.

Don't think like this! It's really not that hard to get a girl. It's people like you that make it out to be something up on a pedestal. It's only as hard as you make it.

For some guys it is really hard to get a girl. If you can go right now, and walk to a mall are you able to pick up at least 3 girls? This is what I am trying to teach.

I Never put a girl up on a pedestal.

Here's an old Article I wrote, for guys dealing with Fear with Approaching.


Whenever I have fear about something I take a step back and I ask myself...

Why am I scared?

I find another way around it because I know I'm The Alpha, and I shouldn't be scared of something as stupid as the situation that's at hand. So I still do what I am afraid of, but it gets done because I truly want to do what I am scared of and nothing will keep me from doing what I want, especially something as stupid as fear.

What I do is I analyze why I'm scared and find out if I truly have a reason to fear what I am doing. Ask yourself.

Can something really harm me physically if I do this?

If it's yes, maybe you shouldn't be doing it. Or maybe you should, you decide. Realize when gaming girls, there is nothing to be afraid of...and that being afraid is only keeping you back because thousand's of years ago, we had to be. But not anymore.

Another way I like to look at fear from holding me back from what I want to do is this...

When I'm older and look back, would I think it's stupidnot doing what I want?

When fear is in front of me, I don't let it get to me. I take a step back, and say to myself...

" I want an exciting, exhilarating, fun, do what I want life, and fear won't stop me. "
And I go and do what I am afraid of.

Fear shouldn't stop you, next time you are afraid of something, whether it be approaching or something else. Ask yourself these 4 questions.

Why am I experiencing this fear?

Will this cause physical harm to me?

Will not facing this fear give me the life I strive for?

Will it stop me from achieving a goal I am trying to reach?

Be honest with yourself, and don't make excuses. Once you find your answers, realize the truth, and the truth is that there's no reason to be afraid.


When fear is staring you in the face, stare right back, and walk right through it..


-Jorge

I've been on paragon project for a while and my success with women has improved. I've been in seduction for a long time and the Crash Course, which you can find a link to in Jorges signature, is very impressive.