Quote Originally Posted by Adam View Post
It's a shame you broke up - I hope it was for the right reasons though? Doesn't sound like it from what you said? people learn about love and relationships all through their lives, so beaking up because you don't think you're mature enough doesn't sound like a good reason, you're both learning and understanding your feelings.



I never said that! Just experience often tells you different.
Well the reason was in part because we couldn't handle the give and get that happens with relationships. We disagreed sometimes and couldn't live with the "agreeing to disagree" thing. Trying to stay yourself, trying to make the other person happy, that sort of thing.

Somehow it was just never a seamless transition from how we were in love mentally to in love with everything else involved too. It always felt like there was something between us. Something that wasn't there before. I'll think on it.
I felt this breakup coming so I'm not blindsided by it. wasn't ready for it but not surprised by it.

This whole Joe thing makes me really uncomfortable. If she complains about me to him, it kind of makes abstract feelings into solid thoughts, then magnified into solid words when it might have not been that big of a deal to begin with. Its good to talk about problems you can't solve to people, but Joe?? He's kind of got a biased opinion there.


haha yeah, i know you never said that adam. Thats just my motto. as teens, we're just dumb. we're learning to get better but for now, we're dumb

thx for the input peeps. its greatly appreciated. This is gonna be a confusing time coming up, i know that much for sure. its gonna be hard to close the lid on 2 years of liking somebody.

...she could see herself getting married to me.