Possible Dream Guide(s)?

**Linkzelda** · 10-10-2011 04:30 PM

Last night and early morning was crazy.

I had a lucid dream where I met some lady that looks like a Cougar (MILF). And I asked her if she was my dream guide. She asked, "Why don't you believe what I tell you?" when she said "Yes." I asked her name and she said it was "Yessica" something. I was so enticed on her figure that I started to get sexual and woke up for a split second and tried to close my eyes again to go back in the dream LOL.

Then I had a short dream around early morning where this lady that looks exactly like EVA (Tatyana) from Metal Gear Solid 3 (She wore a red uniform instead of the one here)

After I tried to kill some enemies in a laboratory in the dream, one spotted me and I said basically told myself "SCREW THIS!" And then I went up a ladder to reset the alert system. Then on top of the ladder I see EVA, but she gives me a gray card that has an "M" on it. On the back of it it said "Margaret," but I'm pretty sure who I saw was EVA.

What I'm trying to ask is, are these possible dream guides because they ACTUALLY gave their names to me? (Like the EVA look-alike writing me her name?)

**ShadowOfSelf** · 10-10-2011 04:47 PM

I got a bit lost with the first part, dont know if its just me, after you asked her if your dream guide did she say yes or?

I havnt met my dream guide yet, but from what ive read, you will KNOW if its them or not, if not they will make it quite obvious, if you get some silly response or something that doesnt make sense, its probally just a DC. Maybe someone whos met one can answer this better though

Also Yessica = Jessica

**Linkzelda** · 10-10-2011 04:58 PM

Sorry she did said "yes" and I wanted to make sure, and she asked me why I didn't believe her. Darn it, would've been awesome if those were my DGs. She said it with a strong accent, and I knew a girl's name in waking life who was Yessica, and hated it when people called her Jessica xD . I think her name was implanted in my brain before I slept for some odd reason.

But the second one made an effort compared to my other DC. Oh well, I'll just keep lucid dreaming.

Also, most of my dreams involved some lady speaking out to me that was BLONDE. And this one is obviously blonde.

**ShadowOfSelf** · 10-10-2011 08:11 PM

I see, alot of people say when there DG/Spirit guide/sub conscious etc speak, its with quite a distinct sometimes authoritative tone. All i can suggest is to look for her again and find out more.

**abicus** · 10-12-2011 04:57 AM

I'm currently trying to confront my DG who is a girl I knew in high school. Why my DG is her Idk.
You have any tips

**ShadowOfSelf** · 10-12-2011 09:40 AM

How do you know she is your DG?
State your intention clearly in the dream you wish to see your dream guide. What would help is if you beleive they are behind you or behind a door, its harder to imagine someone appearing right in front of you.
Could also implement it into your MILD, that you want to meet your DG

**abicus** · 10-12-2011 09:53 AM

Strange realization! - Dream Journals - Lucid Dreaming - Dream Views

She is almost always present even if i cant see her its hard to explain tried to in this DJ entry

**ShadowOfSelf** · 10-12-2011 11:21 AM

Interesting.
If you dont mind me asking, what was your relationship with this girl at school? were you close?
Its possible shes your guide, maybe even a sibling/lover from a past life.
Have you had any lucid dreams? if not then you should affirm it in your mind/dream journal to remember you are dreaming when you feel her presence. Then when your lucid talk to her, ask her what you want to know.

**abicus** · 10-12-2011 11:34 AM

I am trying to use this as an anchor for me to realize that i am dreaming
We had had classes together from 7th through 1st year of Junior college
We got along well
I always felt a strong attraction for her but my sights were set else were during high school.
Not the straight forward physicall attraction but more though not as strong as others
I never knew how she felt though
We helped each other in class often and typically had similar opinions
We both kinda had a bad at home situations
I have had few lucids
One in which i put on my DJ where it began non lucid were i transformed into a girl
its one of few a dreams in which i can't/couldn't be sure of her actual presence ...
omg ...
i just remembered she was in that dream before i went to my friends house and i saw her after the change happened but can't remeber if we talked or what happened

**ShadowOfSelf** · 10-12-2011 11:55 AM

It seems there is a spiritual connection between you both.
Incorporate something like this into your reality checks - "Am i dreaming?.. is 'she' here?.. was she here?"
Its possible she is like i said a spirit/dream guide or a past relative/friend/lover. Could even be a spirit taking on the form of her, as she was someone you worked closely with and typically had the same opinions.
Start interpreting your dreams aswel, asking why was she here and what was she trying to show me?

**abicus** · 10-12-2011 11:59 AM

she is a presence when i need help specially in nightmares
its when she is a character is were its different
i have projected out of my body several times in dreams and night mares
some times to save her other times idk

**ShadowOfSelf** · 10-12-2011 01:37 PM

As i said your best bet it too wait until you become lucid to get confront her and get to know her better.
Its possible though it could be your Anima, which for a male is your feminine side. Animus for a womans masculine side. This could explain how you project into and become her, dealing with situations from youre feminine side (loving and caring, the mother nature side), where as before you might only deal with situations from a masculine side, which isnt always the best/most effective route to take.
Yin & Yang shows how both sides integrate into one whole, and even how in both sides there is a part of the other. Everyone has this from birth, from your father and mother, one was created, you, containing both sides of your parents, though one is more dominant. Coming to terms with and accepting your Anima/Animus is the path to becoming one. Learn from her.

**dreamerJon23** · 10-13-2011 12:40 AM

A tip for telling whether it's a dream guide is do they seem as wakeful and intelligent as you after you begin to question them. If that works they could easily be a guide.