Thread: Does Kissing another guy in a LD make u gay? or sord of gay?? help..

^ What the fuck

don't buy into society's whole macho guy anti-gay sentiments. it's not a big deal. i've done shit that most people would consider mildly to overtly gay (lol) but it's all in good fun. nobody will point at a girl and be like OMIGOD LEZBO if she kisses another girl.

Originally Posted by Bladekillua

I won't put all the details because you don't want to know lol I'll go straight to the point.

... The irony made me laugh so hard.

Anyway, it's a dream, hey. I've done stuff in dreams I would NEVER do in real life.

... if you think the same sex is bad, try trees and lions.

Kromoh, you CAN unlearn things. Or rather, re-learn them. When I moved from america to here last year, I had to unlearn driving on the right side of the road, and learn to drive on the left. Case in point, alcoholics anonymus, or other addiction programs. Ok, so being gay isn't an addiction, but the principle holds. It would take work, however.

Blade; being gay is a decision. If you don't want to be gay, then you probablly aren't. Even if you have a neurological disorder or something.

I forgot to say something. Kissing a guy in a LD dosent make you gay. Asking about it, does..

Originally Posted by PNG_pyro

Kromoh, you CAN unlearn things. Or rather, re-learn them. When I moved from america to here last year, I had to unlearn driving on the right side of the road, and learn to drive on the left. Case in point, alcoholics anonymus, or other addiction programs. Ok, so being gay isn't an addiction, but the principle holds. It would take work, however.

Blade; being gay is a decision. If you don't want to be gay, then you probablly aren't. Even if you have a neurological disorder or something.

Incorrect. Being gay/bisexual is not a decision, you're born with the preference. You may be able to enjoy men through learning (and vice versa, if you're already gay), but it is extremely unlikely, that any person at all, can unlearn the affection for one of the genders. Some people claim that they've done it, but through the process, their personality also changed a lot, making them completely different people.

being gay is addictive. once you suck cock, you crave it like the crack rock.

Originally Posted by boognish

being gay is addictive. once you suck cock, you crave it like the crack rock.

Speak for yourself load addict.



Dreaming gay sexual experiences doesn't mean your gay.
Dreaming about being a serial killer doesn't mean your a murderer.
Dreaming about walking on the moon doesn't make you an astronaut etc etc.

They're dreams. Love them or loath them and get over them.

Originally Posted by Vex Kitten

Speak for yourself load addict.



Dreaming gay sexual experiences doesn't mean your gay.
Dreaming about being a serial killer doesn't mean your a murderer.
Dreaming about walking on the moon doesn't make you an astronaut etc etc.

They're dreams. Love them or loath them and get over them.

Great point!!!

well, sexuality is NOT a choice. Im straight and couldnt "choose" to be gay even if my life depended on it... i mean, i could never get excited wit gay thoughts.

But one thing though: your avatar IS indeed pretty gay, actually...

"Not that there is anything wrong with that!" hehehe

Originally Posted by TravelerBetweenWorlds

well, sexuality is NOT a choice. Im straight and couldnt "choose" to be gay even if my life depended on it... i mean, i could never get excited wit gay thoughts.

But one thing though: your avatar IS indeed pretty gay, actually...

"Not that there is anything wrong with that!" hehehe

Hey i like Naruto lol!! helps me lucid dream!!!

Originally Posted by TravelerBetweenWorlds

well, sexuality is NOT a choice.

Everybody knows that who doesn't watch RPN or work for the Bush administration. Why is this thread still around? I didn't expect this one to stay here for very long.

Originally Posted by ninja9578

Everybody knows that who doesn't watch RPN or work for the Bush administration. Why is this thread still around? I didn't expect this one to stay here for very long.

Well it is going a little off topic but i already got really great answers regarding my LD.

Originally Posted by ninja9578

Everybody knows that who doesn't watch RPN or work for the Bush administration.

Or isn't a christian

Yeah you cant really be gay unless you consider yourself gay. First, do you consider yourself straight?

i just gotta say that if you were indeed "lucid" in this dream where you kissed another man, then you were acting on a conscious desire. It would be different if it had happened in a non-lucid dream. even still, i wouldn't say that that makes you gay, just that you consciously wanted to kiss that dude. bi curious maybe.

Originally Posted by boognish

i just gotta say that if you were indeed "lucid" in this dream where you kissed another man, then you were acting on a conscious desire. It would be different if it had happened in a non-lucid dream. even still, i wouldn't say that that makes you gay, just that you consciously wanted to kiss that dude. bi curious maybe.

Lol don't be a fool...we all know that their are different levels of lucid...
and there is never such a thing as full lucid, where you are as aware as when you are awake, because if you do become that aware, you will most likely wake up.

He is not gay, unless he wants to be gay, if he is attracted to women, then he is straight, if he is not attracted to guys, then he is straight, if he is attracted to both men and women he is bi...and it only applies if he feels these attractions while awake.

Not to be insensitive or anything, but I'd say its more your avatar that makes you gay. That, and the fact that you now hate this person because you had a dream about kissing him. If you were comfortable in your heterosexuality you'd find it easy to dismiss as just a dream. The fact that you are so broken up about it now that you are awake is a sign that there might be some meaning behind it.

Originally Posted by tommo

Even if he is gay he's still ok. lol

"Not that there's anything wrong with that" - Seinfeld

I'm sorry, I didn't mean it to sound that way.

Of course gay is still ok (to me) He seemed a bit worried that he might be though, so it might not be OK for him

I've revised my earlier opinion,

Yes it makes you gay =P

Originally Posted by Sandform

I've revised my earlier opinion,

Yes it makes you gay =P

Ok, now am confused...
too many contradicting comments...

OK, case close i refuse to believe am gay just because of some dream and it was stupid of me to even think that...so umm how can i delete this thread its been resolved!!!!!!!

Just face it, you're gay and there's nothing you can do about it.

Joking. Just private message a moderator and ask if this thread can be deleted. That's my guess anyway.

Originally Posted by Kromoh

It doesn't mean you'll become a crossdresser who will talk like a duck.

And what's wrong with that?