Does anyone else have sex in their LD everytime they have a LD?

**SxDreamer** · 09-01-2007 05:45 PM

I've only actually had 3 LD in my 26 years of life. I'm a natural one, and only after this last one last night did I find this fourm.

However- in every one of my LD's I always end up having sex! (no i never get to finish but it goes on for a good 30 seconds)...

2 of them were with a girl that I had a huge crush on in highschool.....and this last one I think I was having sex with her just to test out if it was a lucid dream or not, then she started crying haha. (no this wasn't real life)

So anyway, it seems like I always have some kinda sex going on in my LD's

Also- the only time i tend to get LD is when I've been SLEEPING ALLOT!

Last night I went to bed at 9pm woke up at 2am and went back to be at 2:30am and woke up at 8am this morning. Does this have something to do with being able to LD?

**Redrivertears** · 09-01-2007 07:19 PM

Hey there,

Most experienced lucid dreamers tend to set themselves dreamgoals. That is, they think in advance on what they want to try or accomplish when they are lucid, with the hopes that they will remember in their dream, and can go work towards their goal.

Without setting goals, it is very easy to simply get lost in whatever urge hits you at the moment of lucidity. For some its sex, for some its flying, for some its fighting, etc

Ofcourse, it can be a lot of fun to just go with it and enjoy yourself when you're lucid. Why not? But if it bothers you, or if you want to try something else then simply working off whatever pleases you at the moment, I'd advice you to set dreamgoals in advance.

Hope that helps,

-Redrivertears-

**Gez** · 09-02-2007 12:31 AM

hmmm maybe not ALL the time, but yeah, i guess most of the time when i cant think of anything productive to do, i grab the first girl i see.

**luciddream** · 04-20-2008 01:15 AM

I actually have the opposite problem... perhaps you could give me some advice, please. I can't ever seem to have sex in a dream without waking up! I've attempted only a few times and all of those times I've woken up after experiencing minimum pleasure! Please help. Do you have some trick that you use to stay asleep? How do you do it?

Thanks in advance.

**Soldier** · 04-20-2008 04:44 AM

Originally Posted by Gez

hmmm maybe not ALL the time, but yeah, i guess most of the time when i cant think of anything productive to do, i grab the first girl i see.

lol thats what I'd normally do to. good to have goals but its soo hard to not screw that hot chick that walks by.

**Mes Tarrant** · 04-20-2008 04:45 AM

Hmmm, can't say this is true for me.

**kingofclutch** · 04-20-2008 04:48 AM

I used to every time I had a LD before I knew you could do other stuff. I used to get them about once a week or a few weeks and just imagine hot chicks and fuck them before I knew that I could do other stuff in a LD. But now I know better, but I still have sex once in a while.

**luciddream** · 04-20-2008 05:01 AM

Just ignore my plea for help.

**seeker28** · 04-20-2008 06:23 AM

Originally Posted by luciddream

Just ignore my plea for help.

There have been a lot of posts about how to have lucid sex, how to have better lucid sex, and how to stay in the dream long enough to finish the lucid sex. Use the search option. If you can't find any, just PM me and I'll dig around and find some for you!

**Bob Dole** · 04-20-2008 01:18 PM

Probably because your not getting sex in real life. If having sex is not an option (For what ever reason) try masturbation. It will stop sex dreams. Though I suggest real sex. It's much better.

**McLoone** · 04-20-2008 11:06 PM

Originally Posted by Bob Dole

Probably because your not getting sex in real life. If having sex is not an option (For what ever reason) try masturbation. It will stop sex dreams. Though I suggest real sex. It's much better.

Yeah it is much better, but if your single like a few of the last few guys sound like, then you can't compare having sex with an average women in real life, and an absolute Stunner in an LD

(even if you don't finish eh Luciddream

)

**juroara** · 04-22-2008 03:17 AM

Originally Posted by Bob Dole

Probably because your not getting sex in real life. If having sex is not an option (For what ever reason) try masturbation. It will stop sex dreams. Though I suggest real sex. It's much better.

I once knew someone who had nothing but horny dreams, and they were having plenty of sex in real life. some people just have bigger sexual appetites, and not even real life satisfies them.

**seeker28** · 04-22-2008 11:49 PM

Here are some posts about sex in lucid dreams:

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=52407

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=52195

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=51012

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=49777

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=49231
the above may be especially helpful as it is how to not get sidetracked by sex during LDs.

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=48523

Hope these help. Sorry took a while to get back to you on this!

**i make it rain** · 04-23-2008 02:06 AM

before i found DV, i would have sex in pretty much every LD i had. now i can think of better things to do. often nowadays in a LD, i will have some task or thing i thought of before the dream. after that, if i am still dreaming, i will go find someone. when i first started LDing, it first would only last a few thrusts before i woke up. but now, it can last awhile (and i even finish sometimes). and when i finish, i am able to dive right back in with no refractory period.