I think it's a lesser of two evils type of thing.

Just thinking of 127 hours, book or movie, I'm sure Aaron didn't want to cut his arm off, but Im sure as hell he didnt want to die of dehydration.

Goes for anything. Wife wants me to take the trash out, I dont want to take the trash out, were in the middle of the football game. But I know how she will act later, and I dont want that more than the inconvenience of getting up and taking the trash out.

I dont want to do this report for work, but I know what my boss will do if I dont, so I do the report.

We are constantly weighing options of decisions, and that is why I believe even if it is something we didnt want to do, or to happen to us, it is and always has been of our own doing. The place we are right now is exactally where we have chose to be.