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I got to thinking the other day, and I was reflecting upon how people are polite. On the surface it seems normal, but then I questioned why. I thought to myself that often times, being polite and giving things up would get us killed before we were completely civilized ( yes, I do believe that we were, at some point, uncivilized beings, not necessarily apes though. I'm not necessarily religious or atheistic. Please try to keep religion out of this ). As I was saying. Before we were civilized human beings, what would politeness get us? Well, I can only think of one logical explanation. I think that it is a built in survival mechanism for humans. Think about it. You give what you have excess of, and because of the built in mechanism that they also have, they will want to return the favor when you need something. It's kind of like, you have a couple deer carcasses laying around in your cave ( bear with me here ). You notice another "person" starving, and you give them some meat. This is in hopes that, if you are in the same position, they will do the same for you, thereby helping increase your chances of survival. This tells me that everything we do is for greed, or very close to it. What are your thoughts? |
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Wait, what? |
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Maybe in current times, it would depend on the person. However, every instinct that we have has a reason to it ( in my opinion ). I think that being polite may have stemmed from this survival mechanism, and evolved into what it is now. |
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But what exactly do you think the survival mechanism is for? Getting something in return, or making allies? |
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It could be either, it could be a combination, or it could be a completely different reason. I think your explanation works too. |
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it's not a survival mechanism, its an evolutionary mechanism that has propelled mankind above and beyond what any other animal on earth has done |
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Last edited by juroara; 01-06-2009 at 05:44 AM.
We had another thread about altruism that kind of touched on the same subject. |
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Since when does politeness mean giving things to other people? If anything that would go under the word generous or charitable. |
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Starry starry night, paint your pallet blue and gray,
Look out on a summers day,
with eyes that know the darkness of my soul.
I wouldn't interpret this as "greed" (or "politeness" either, really), but I see what you're getting at. |
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Wow. |
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Jujutsu is the gentle art. It's the art where a small man is going to prove to you, no matter how strong you are, no matter how mad you get, that you're going to have to accept defeat. That's what jujutsu is.
I think people are polite because they expect other people to be polite to them in return. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Although this phrase is not always true it is generally the case. Being polite is a way to minimize dislike towards oneself from other people. Of course there are some people who will dislike you no matter how polite you are, but those people are usually a minority. |
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Yeh, something like that. But I think it is like this : I will try and be polite, no matter how unpolite others are, because respect and politeness towards each other is the foundations of any relationship. So at least I am aiming to strong foundation with my actions. |
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Jujutsu is the gentle art. It's the art where a small man is going to prove to you, no matter how strong you are, no matter how mad you get, that you're going to have to accept defeat. That's what jujutsu is.
I agree. It's all about minimizing the foundation for hate and maximizing the foundation for friends, allies and good relationships. It's a successful strategy for surviving in the human social sphere. |
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Psychological egoism may interest you. It is the idea that not matter what we do it is ultimatly selfish because deep down all humans are driven by there own selfish needs. There's a famous story of Abraham linken who stopped his coach to rescue some drowning dogs. When later questioned he told peopel that he saved the dogs not purely for the sake of being selfless or moral, but beacuse he would not be able to live with the guilt. |
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People are polite because if they aren't, they might get kicked out of the "clan" and would die for some reason or the other. People are social beings, it's what makes humanity evolve. |
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Last edited by Bonsay; 01-06-2009 at 10:48 PM.
What I meant to say wasn't so much giving, as that was just an example. For example, maybe being polite and reasonable to somebody. They might remember that and give you the same in return, making it easier for both of you to get what you want. I also agree with a lot of the other posts in this thread. Maybe it isn't greed so much as trying to survive. I wish I could change the title of this thread to make it fit more. |
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You seem to be combining evolution theory of altruism and karma theory of altruism. |
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Abraxas
Originally Posted by OldSparta
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How do you know you are not dreaming right now?
That's not what I meant. You can leave if you don't want to take it seriously. |
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