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Doesn't greed imply intent to gain? |
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Originally Posted by OldSparta
There is actually a lot of similarity between the two concepts. Why are we polite to people? We are polite to give them a pleasurable experience. It shows a regard for how that person's interaction with you will go, making it less-likely that they will feel offended or otherwise displeased with you (at least that is my take on the reason for politeness). It is an extension of generosity. |
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By the way, to all the people here who actually put some thought into their answers, I like all of them. I think what I am describing is altruism. Although the name is " is being polite greedy? " I just inserted greedy for lack of a better word. I hope you now know what I meant. |
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It's not that. We're still learning from you oniman7. New people who have an interest in becoming regs on the forum are watched (not in some strict organized conspiratorial type fashion or anything) but more people take notice of them and formulate thoughts, ideas, beliefs and assumptions about them. All in all...you seem like a nice guy whose trying to "fit in" yet doesn't know exactly how to go about doing it, so you become frustrated because others are taking you in a way you are not wanting to be taken or received. Some however are, and for that you are grateful. Aside from that, you come across as completely devoid of humor. Just lighten up a bit. If you stick around and genuinely take an interest in people here while simultaneously contributing to the forum (be it on or off topic) I think you will become a great member here. At least that's my prognosis. |
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Things are not as they seem
Alright, thanks. Although you are right about my reason for frustration, I'm not completely devoid of humor. Just gone through some things recently, and when I start to not like somebody, I show no kindness towards them. Just something I've had to learn. Sorry. |
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I dunno what's worse; that people don't understand the concept of being nice just to be nice, or that people so openly accept that they are nice to others for selfish reasons. |
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Although I believe it's programmed in us to have some moral code, I also think our leaders condition people to be polite. Much in the same manner they push this politically correct bullshit on us. Both take away from the harshness of our current situation. Your leaders want you to be polite and politically correct so that you think they TOO are being polite and politically correct. They don't want anyone coming up with "harsh" or "controversial" opinions that might upset the current established order. I dunno makes sense to me why they'd want everyone to be nice and naive. And then when they want to go to war... well that's what all the Christian soldiers are for. Tell me when lord... Tell me when. |
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Last edited by SpecialInterests; 11-09-2009 at 02:05 AM.
You ask: Is being polite greedy? |
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Luminous Spacious Dream Masters That Holographically Communicate
among other teachers taught me
not to overestimate the Value of our Concrete Knowledge;"Common sense"/Rationality,
for doing so would make us Blind for the unimaginable, unparalleled Capacity of and Wisdom contained within our Felt Knowledge;Subconscious Intuition.
My first response was "politeness and charity are two different things" but that's already been explained. |
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no being polite goes AGAINST out survivalist instincts, think about it do you ever need to be polite or is it because of societial pressure? |
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The way I think of it -- and I may not have explained this right when I originally posted it -- is that it's a built in survival instinct, not for us as individuals, but as a whole. Human beings are herd animals, and I think it's ingrained in us to help the herd rather than ourselves in order for the species to survive. |
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IMO, it can be greedy to be polite. By being polite, you are trying to reap the benefits for yourself, are you not? |
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