Rathez, before you go to sleep relax completely. When you are going to lay down and practice WILDing, completely clear your head of any thoughts be them friendly, or stressed thoughts. You have to tell yourself to expect anything to happen and be prepared to ignore it, but at the same time not look for anything to happen. If this makes any sense, I will give you an example.
You are going to bed. You lay down and wait. You have to prepare yourself not to be surprised by any of the WILD's effects on you, but you cannot be waiting for them to happen. The reasoning for this is because you are focused to much on trying to out-wait the Sleep Paralysis, therefore making your body more alert, and not contributing to the fact that you want your body to go to sleep. The whole effort of a WILD is to trick your body that you are falling asleep but being conscious. Treat your mind as if it were someone you were lying to about something. You would try not to reveal anything you are lying about, and naturally reduce all possible things that the person could conclude. In essence, it is the same as lying to a person, but this does not have any consequence.
I think this made sense, but if you need me to clear something up let me know, because my English is not the best
-cV
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