WARNING! This is going to be a big rant on the regular joe lucid dreaming approach. Read with care.

Hey!

Today I am going to share a way to destroy the biggest obstacle to lucid dreaming that exists.

I also want to note that it's also the biggest problem to happy relationships or even a happy singlelife.

It's starts to sound like a riddle, and in a way it is, a riddle some people live their lives by every single day and if they don't solve it they end up unhappy.

If you feel offended I am sorry, I am simply talking about myself.

So what is it that creates major problems in lucid dreaming, realtionships and singlelife?

Dependence.

In some relationships the couple gets so dependent on each other and needy for it to work, otherwise they can't feel like they are enough.
In the singlelife or everyday life in general we may not dare to express ourselves independently and therefore we are dependent on other peoples opinion of us.

And lucid dreaming we are dependent on methods and when we surrender completely to it and give methods and theory power over us we lose faith over our own ability.

Tim Post told me this long time ago but I didn't listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zaho...1F6F1E&index=6

The lucid dreaming community have somehow made the techniques use us rather than the other way around.
Just like the clothing industry. And well I am not blaming anyone except myself, because I should use my own brain.

So now I am going to make an attempt to unlearn what I have learned (Atleast everything that isn't fully based on personal experience.)

I used to help beginners by saying, sleep paralysis isn't what to strive for, it happens already when we are asleep, or don't focus on your body your awareness goes where your awareness is directed, or wake up several times and your aminergic system of the brain will be more active which makes your critical system in the brain mor active which will make you more likely to have lucid dreams and so on.

And I am going to go totally naked now and say that, yes those theories are based on a little personal experience from me, but FAR from enough to make it valid. And all of it is actually just me repeating theories from another source such as: Michael Raduga, Robert Monroe, Lucidology 101.

I am going to be honest to myself now and say "I SUCK SH*T AND I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT LUCID DREAMING" not going to write to beginners needing help, feeding my lucid dreaming knowledge ego, because that is basically what I did.

The reason I am doing this complete turn around is because this exact mindset helped my dating life, instead of thinking of what to say and analyzing how women think, I just thought "I am enough, I am a dorky, nerdy overthinker but what ever that happens I am enough."

And this is the opposite of being dependent, being FREE!

Free of the burden of finding the perfect method on the internet, free of the burden of learning a new theory, free of the burden of buying books, free of the burden of learning the step by step process of another person. I am free to learn on my own!

So what am I going to do now? I got the free will to do anything I want, so I am going to decide exactly what I want without any boundary of some theory telling me it's not possible or too difficult.

I want to learn to lucid dream at will, every night and I want to enter the dream without losing consciousness inbetween.

In order to find out how to do this, I am going to ask some questions.

Exploration 1:

What happens if I lay still on my back for 20 minutes with closed eyes?

From now on I will make lucid dreaming not a practise, but an exploration. I will find my own truths and my own answers.

I wish for you to do the same.

The reason I wrote this is to encourage the people that right now read a guide over and over and wonder why it isn't working for them, and make them realise that they don't need anything except their own curiosity.

I hope for them to find their freedom.

Bye for now!