Oneironaught, that is a terrible, despicable attitude to have. Rid yourself of it immediately.

If you, for some reason, feel that you yourself are the problem, figure out how to go about fixing it. Don't just give up on relationships altogether. Seriously, you're beginning to sound downright scary with this whole, "I suck" thing. Realizing that you have issues is one thing -- if that is indeed the case -- but taking it out on yourself is another thing entirely.

Cheer up; they say there is an average of four females for every one male on this planet. Out of all those, at least one is your perfect match. Logistics say she can't be too far off. Just be patient, and don't give up.


And if you keep up with this self-depreciation crap, I'm gonna chew you out again, buster. Up one side and down the other. From all that I've seen of you on this forum, you're one hell of a great guy, one I sure as heck wouldn't mind calling friend. Whatever lucky woman makes you hers will be just that; lucky.

Chin up. Tomorrow's a new day. One in which, hopefully, one of those couple billion spare women will discover that you're just what she's been looking for all her life.