Thanks for the advice everyone, and
SpaceCowboyDave, haha I know what you mean.
So I guess I really just need to start thinking in 1st person, which I find difficult. But I will start practicing the methods you have offered.

And
sivason everything you have explained was really insightful, thank you, I ought to start really questioning things around me in much more detail than just the casual reality check.
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