Quote Originally Posted by AstralGypsy View Post
I found the linking interested - When I was with my ex couple years back I use to watch her sleep on nights I couldn't and watch her peacefully sleep - I would always think..what is she dreaming about, so I sat there in silence focused on her mind - imagined that she was with me and I was with her in 1 and that is all I focused on as I fell asleep. I then entered a dream where it was taken place in a bar with a lot of people dancing and I saw this girl dancing alone as I approached her I tapped her shoulder and she turned around and it was my GF - though it was a dream she didn't say OHH HAYYY nor did I acknowledge that we were in a dream, I just went with the flow of the environment til I was woken up by my alarm which she also woken up from her dream.

I told her - so how well did you dance last nite? .. she said .. lol what you talking about I was here with you watching TV on the couch .. I said NOO in your dream - you were dancing alone in a hoppin club with a lot of people..shes like HOW THE EFF DID YOU KNOW THAT!!!!

So I think there are more than one technique to share dreams or to sync ones self-conscious to anothers dream aka " telepathy upload"
Yes, I also had exactly the same situation with a woman. Dream was different and it was lucid for me, but started the same way. I was in my bed looking at her, thinking what she is dreaming about, where is she now. I felt asleep and found my self in a dream that did not look like mine. When I woke up I asked her what did she dreamt of last night, she told me about the same dream that I was in with her.
I think it definitely changes the situation if you know the person who you are dreaming with. But you understand that it is incredibly rare to meet another person who believes in lucid dreaming and is interested in dream sharing and etc.

I did not mention this in the main post, so I will write my ideas on it here.

Linking to a person whom you know close enough or/and are emotionally connected to
So how it works and why. I think it is similar to a connection where you just communicate on distance, a more advanced method I would say. Knowing a person in real life should create a much stronger link. You know the person well, you know his emotions, his reactions, his behavior and personality in general. It is very important to be able to notice and feel those, I think it not only helps you distinguish between a normal dream and a shared dream, but also somehow attracts your dreaming minds to each other.


This is one of my dreams or targets in future. To have a shared and lucid dream with a person I know well, to communicate with each other in this dream on a new level. From what I know, this will be an amazing experience, something that we never felt before.