 Originally Posted by IrisRavenstar
The night my mother died, in 1996, I had a vivid lucid dream that I was at her bedside in Florida (I'm in Connecticut), holding her hand. I knew she had been worried about me if she died, as we were very close, and yet she was in a huge amount of pain from cancer. As I held her hand, I told her it was okay to go now, I'd be okay. I then started to wake up, realized that I had *really* been with her, and was flooded with peace and the awareness that she had crossed over. I went back to sleep and slept very peacefully. My sister-in-law called early in the morning to tell me she had passed during the night. I said, "I know. I was with her." I know I puzzle my family with statements like that... but I *was* with her! Every bit as much as if I were physically in the room, and I knew she knew it too. I did get to say goodbye.
I don't know if Out of Body is the right term, but the connection, the being together, that was real. Now, I don't know when people start talking about running off to other worlds if any of that is real. I haven't personally experienced that. How much is real, how much is imagination? It's hard to say. But we I think we have all kinds of experiences that sort of defy being neatly labelled. But still, we like having things boxed up and understood, don't we? 'Tis our nature! Or at least the nature of the left side of our brains. The right side is a bit more free-flowing.
I should expand.
The difference between waking life, dream, lucid dreams, OBE's, AP's and etc.
is not what one would think.
We can imagine that consciousness is one very large spectrum, that some states have more/higher awareness, focus and control.
It's hard to put in the right words, but everything is interconnected, it makes it even harder when the meaning and definition of these concepts are vague, and even harder when the concepts are limited and confined to a little area.
You were with her, and it that way labelling the experience a lucid dream is confining the experience to be something 100% internally produced. Dreaming is just being in the non-physical when you sleep (from our waking perspective), the data stream being processed can come from an external or internal source, in your case you was dreaming and received data from an external source, your mother. So dreaming does not mean "it's not real", dreaming is as real as right now, the dreaming environment is just often different in nature, for many people vague and not very memorable nor important. The quality of perception differs, but it's still real.
The most common form of data from the NPMR (Non-Physical-Matter-Reality) is accessing the data banks of different databases, either actualized past (Things that did happen), unactualized past (Everything else that could happen but didn't) and the future probable database, very often we hear of precognitive dreams. Those are individuals accessing that database, the probable future, because of free-will the future can only be probable.
Logically, when progressing more and more into the future, the event you're requesting or getting information about is not very probable, the calculation of events gets more precise closer to present time (It's easy to predict your next actions, but with free-will the probability of an action that could happen in 1000 years is not very likely).
When someone get this data about a future event one must realize that it's not bound to happen, the data you get could be a low probability event, but you still perceived it, and with free-will the projected future can be changed, that is why some many dreams don't come true, they are either just not data from the database, or probably/not probably and did not happen.
Now I have said too much , the things that I have said may only give reason if the full model is applied too, (Like a big puzzle, with pieces fitting together, either you have the pieces to understand to "I" or someone else bring the pieces to understand).
If one is interested in a Theory of Everything, that links physics and metaphysics together, that explains the big picture (Beyond physical-matter-reality) in a very logical, westerner mind-set that is not written to only the most educated. The author is a scientist who currently works for NASA, but have dedicated over 35 years of his life to the pioneer research of consciousness. The fruit of this can be shared with everyone.
The trilogy is available for free online, but can be bought on the internet too.
My Big TOE
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Now get started with decreasing the entropy of your consciousness!
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