I'v never posted in this thread before, but here are my thoughts on the matter....
It's wrong to force sex, even in dreams. All of you can do what you want, but I never have... it just feels wrong. Not just rape, but even "mentally softening" the person, if you will. I don't like manipulating DCs unless they're active antagonists, or some empty-head that I summoned to test something on, but existing, innocent DCs that my mind has already created are sort of sacred to me... it's a morality thing, I guess.
That being said, I've never had lucid sex. Howevr, I have had the whole shabang of lucid foreplay, including pants-on (well actually, robe-on) crotch grinding while hugging, passionate kisses, reaching down pants and fingering girls in closets.... mhm. Been there done that.
It's fine as long as the DCs suggests it themselves, or if you suggest it and the DC accepts your offer of their own free will (if dream characters can have a free will -- but you get my point), without you doing something to them.
Anyways, I've always found romance to be much more interesting than anything sexual... of course I might be being a bit hypocritical, since the romance has always led to those sexual situations... well, more like a blend of the two. I guess sex is fine but I'd try more romance with the sex blended in, just a component in the romantic experience. Trust me, it's way more rewarding...you guys think that lucid sex is addicting... I wake up wishing that that girl was real so that we could spend the rest of our lives together... I'm trying to LD again soon just to find her and make her a recurring character.
I had a dream last night where I et a girl at a movie theater... we talked... I asked, "Want to have sex?" in a romantic tone, looking into her eyes... she said "Yes," and so we wandered the corridors, searching for a secluded spot, kissing passionately and holding hands as we talked along the way... we had an adventure, exploring the entire dreamscape (it was set in a school of sorts, but with the interior like that of a library, and with a movie theater, billions of staircases leading to all sorts of places, etc...)... I spontaneously became blinded in one part (my subconscious attempting to thwart me or throw in a random variable, guess)... I told her, and asked her to guide me, she did. She held me up and steered me around corners... I was sure that I was going to open my eyes and find myself in some horrible place, an evil trick of my subconscious, but no, I opened them (well, rather, my vision returned) to find myself in a secluded, darkened hallway, and her arm wrapped around my side smiling at me... we got in a closet, then realized that it was only big enough for the two of us to stand up in, I asked, "Umm... so how are we going to do this." She said, "I have no idea!" and laughed... so we talked, then I put my left hand down her pants and rubbed her while we talked (she was on the left and I was on the right)... then my phone vibrated in my right pocket, more plot etc., more time spent with her... point is much more rewarding and memorable than a few minutes of lucid sex, then an orgasm and waking up.
And that's all I have to say.
Oh and if you read all of that, I do appreciate it
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