Thread: SEX in dreams???

Originally Posted by Hakura7

I open the door and there is a girl their, but as i approach her my mom comes in...lol and i woke up in anger, cause i could not kill my dream mom....lol

LMFAO!! thats hilarious

I figure I may as well throw in my couple of cents on the topic. Why not?

Most of my first few LDs went sexual fast. Each time was a spectacular fail and I ended up waking myself and needing a new pair of underwear. I've long given up on it.

I see that some have been much more successful than me. Really, it would feel wrong if I tried it. But when I'm in a dream, sometimes my inhibitions are lowered...

I haven't had any lucid dreams yet (well except one ages ago) but when I dream 9/10 times I have sex well I attempt....get a feel and the scene changes! Take last night I dreamt I was climbing up a flaming spiral mountain thing then randomly start having sex with some DC

Having sex is one of my DreamSigns since it happens so god damn much!

Originally Posted by youssarian

I figure I may as well throw in my couple of cents on the topic. Why not?

Most of my first few LDs went sexual fast. Each time was a spectacular fail and I ended up waking myself and needing a new pair of underwear. I've long given up on it.

I see that some have been much more successful than me. Really, it would feel wrong if I tried it. But when I'm in a dream, sometimes my inhibitions are lowered...

Just because your pants got soaked you need to replace them?

Originally Posted by Celina View Post
I personally see nothing wrong with sexual encounters while dreaming. Myself and many others use Astral projection to meet each other in the dream realms or Astral Plain and have a little fun. Of course this all requires dream control, concentration and an ability to dream walk. I've never tried to have sex with someone in my dream I thought up or who just appears so I have no comment there.

That's cool - I haven't learned much about Astral projection yet. Is it the same as LD?

It's easier to have a sex dream if you abstain for a while...not sure why. All I know is that it also causes a messy situation upon awaking. I had a three-some riding on the top of a stagecoach once, that was pretty interesting but I've never been able to figure out what triggered such a fantastic scene (for some reason, intending to have a sexually charged dream doesn't seem to work for me). Oh well - hopefully I'll have it happen again and pay better attention.

Originally Posted by IndigoGhost

I don't sex in dreams, for one reason and that is because i was once kicking a ball around with a female DC and she turned to me and said "This is a boring dream i am gonna wake up now" and she just disappeared.

So i consider all my DC's to be human and treat them like i would in the real world, because to be honest if i was dreaming unconsciously i would not want some homosexual DC to come and do the bad thing with me without my consent.

*My Personal View" (I don't care if you think DC's are part of your own mind but i don't )

Hmmm. I'd rather have sex with a "human" DC.

Try not to do it, cuzz it REALLY addicts u, probably more than drugs!

Thank you for the advice, but I have my mind made up.
I know a kid (I just now learned this about him, telling him about the wonders of lucid dreaming, LOL) who lucid dreams naturally, and dreams about sex all the time. He seems unscathed. Despite being a total pervert, that is.

I had sex in a dream last night.

HOLY CRAP. lol!


The lucid lasted what felt like two hours. I did plenty of things - shapeshifting, flying in my new form (failed.), had sex, and even just sat there and socialized.

Originally Posted by StasConstantine

Try not to do it, cuzz it REALLY addicts u, probably more than drugs!

I think that's more of a personal thing, and I don't know anyone who's had their lives seriously messed up from having too much dream sex.

Originally Posted by UsernameTheRand

I know a kid (I just now learned this about him, telling him about the wonders of lucid dreaming, LOL) who lucid dreams naturally, and dreams about sex all the time. He seems unscathed. Despite being a total pervert, that is.

Nothing wrong with being a bit twisted.

Originally Posted by jarrhead

The lucid lasted what felt like two hours. I did plenty of things - shapeshifting, flying in my new form (failed.), had sex, and even just sat there and socialized.

You lucky bugger...

Originally Posted by Mario92

I think that's more of a personal thing, and I don't know anyone who's had their lives seriously messed up from having too much dream sex.

I do.

Feels good man

Originally Posted by Mario92

You lucky bugger...

Yeah, I ran out of things to do, so I just sat there sipping on fruity drinks talking to women.

Originally Posted by Hakura7

I open the door and there is a girl their, but as i approach her my mom comes in...lol and i woke up in anger, cause i could not kill my dream mom....lol

LOL

Girls in dreams only ever want me for the sex, and then they just disappear...

Originally Posted by dream_to_be_the_best

1. Stop having sex and quit masturbate for a week - longer the better (When you have more sperm stored up, you will have a higher probability of having a sex dream because of higher levels of hormone)
2. Auto suggestion before you go to sleep -- repeatedly think about something like "I will dream about blah blah blah"
3. Turn lucid.(optional, you can do it without)
4. Find a girl in a dream and have sex with her.
5. Orgasm can make you wake up and wet your bed!

When I was in puberty, I used to have a lot of sex dreams, but now the frequency is down to once a month.

1. agreed.
2. never tried
3. I've never been lucid in any of my sex dreams (and i've had so many that i've lost count ) usually because i'm too caught up in the moment.
4. she always appears before me so i never have to search
5. that's happened alot of times (usually at the really good parts)
so yeah you can try it but i've never been able to force it.

i let the dream tell me what is important, not the other way around.
i am more interested in interacting with the dream as opposed to editing or controlling it.
so, if i get a sex scene, then i interact with that.
if it's another scene, same story,
i think this passive approach is more honoring of our innate dream consciousness trying to connect with us.
why block the message signals deliberately?
so, it appears, that certain things are up for me for a while, then they transition. sex. love. greed. generosity. etc. why judge?
let it happen, let it flow, allow whatever...
the only issue is when you are lucid, what to do?
again, follow your instincts as to where you want to go then, without prejudgments. i think the expectations have us lose lucidity. but when we are truly in the dance of the lucid dream, we keep the lucidity, sex or whatever else happens.

Message signals? I don't think I'm blocking out my entire subconscious/dream conscious just by spicing up a dream.

Every time I have sex with girls in a dream. I wake up because of excitement. You need to learn how to control that excitement.

it is very possible to orgasm in a dream. and the neat thing is that you don't have any mess to clean up after..

@lucidapprentice: i hear you! i think i was more speaking against editing a dream, as in censorship at the level of the logical mind. spicing it up if wished is fun.
wow, the dream i had last night: XXX! i didn't have to do a thing. unfortunately i didn't get lucid but ... no need, in this one. things went swimmingly. (especially for my partner!)

Strangely enough, when I searched the forums for "sex" nothing came up. I found this thread by searching for incubation (and yet I see no discussion of it...)

Anyway, I figure I might as well get my first post out of the way and chime in on this discussion.

I had my first truly lucid dream a few nights ago. Guess what I did first?

In my defense, I had been previously been having a very long and especially realistic sex dream which I didn't get to finish for reasons I can't remember (I never get to finish sex in normal dreams--something ALWAYS happens), so I had a serious case of imaginary blue balls. And I was worried the dream could end any second (my previous lucids had ended the minute I realized I was dreaming).

So anyway, I was in an average size room in some unidentifiable house with about 10 people. Everyone in the room was just standing around like they were in a trance (it was like everything just stopped the minute I realized it was a dream). Basically, I just walked up to the least ugly girl (only 2 girls, so not much choice), led her by the hand over to the couch, and had sex with her (I asked her to put it in so it would be less rapey, but aside from that she didn't move or talk or have any reactions). It felt great right away and I didn't bother trying to last. It was incredibly realistic and extremely intense. It wasn't the best orgasm I've ever had, but it was probably in the top ten. It lasted pretty long too--long enough for me to have what seemed like a complete orgasm before and after I woke up (I woke up in the middle of cumming). Yea, I made a mess in real life, but that doesn't bother me. I take a shower every morning anyway. What is really exciting is that what in reality would have been horrible sex (60 seconds of fucking some ugly comatose girl in front of a bunch of strangers) was incredible. So I know I have a lot of room for improvement. And yea, it may theoretically be a waste of godlike dream power, but as long as I'm single sex is at the forefront of my mind. I can't help it. Maybe in the future I'll explore my dream a bit more, and then end it with sex. Hopefully I can eventually learn to have a dream orgasm without waking up.

In regard to the intensity of orgasms in dreams, I think it is fed by your experience and imagination like any other dream activity. If you haven't had great sex in real life, I doubt you could have great sex in a dream. How would you even know what it feels like? (I assure you, it's nothing like masturbation). Also, if you can't imagine a fantasy beyond what you have experienced in reality, you can't expect to experience one in a dream. I'm not trying to be insulting, but maybe the people who don't have good dream orgasms are lacking in experience or imagination, or maybe just the desire to have great sex (if I was in a relationship right now I wouldn't care about it nearly as much, but since I'm not it's all I think about).

So anyway, my first (real) lucid dream lasted about five minutes, which I think is a good start. If I had abstained it probably would have lasted a lot longer. I was in complete control of myself, and was aware of everything I know about lucid dreaming and could remember my previous attempts so I knew what to avoid. My DCs followed simple commands, but had no personalities. Sorry I wrote so much in what is probably a dead thread, but I had a lot to say and I couldn't find any other sex threads.

Search doesn't like 3 letter words.

To get back to helping, when your lucid you should be able to will them to sleep with you. I've done it alot. It does get addictive and you will almost never dream of anything else. Only when your very lucid will you dream of something else. I suggest just letting them happen. But when lucid just do cooler stuff. Sex is obtained all through life. Don't do something u can in life in a dream. Fly. Create. Kill. Fun stuff!