Do you need a hug?

**Redeemer522** · 08-29-2013 01:31 AM

Thanks Clairity! Here's another hug right back at yah

And how bout more for everyone!

**acatalephobic** · 10-10-2013 02:18 PM

It is strange and amazing and crazy how one's world can change completely in a second or less.

One second it's what you know, the next it's like nothing is the same anymore.

Just like that.

I've spent the last 10 days reeling from one single moment.

10 days ago I had that moment Alyzarin was talking about in January, that

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

"one of those moments where there's something that you know bugs you but you keep telling yourself it's fine and you don't care that much and you feel like you can handle it well, and then someone just happens to bring it up casually in conversation a minute later and you burst into tears. I really need a hug...."

How much have I progressed since then? Almost no progress at all yet.

After 27 years, my entire existence...everything feels different now.

**~~Alyzarin~~** · 10-13-2013 05:54 AM

Ten days isn't that long yet, we all need time to adjust to major life events. Don't rush yourself if you need to take that time, you'll progress when you're ready.

I don't know what happened, but just remember that you'll integrate it like any other experience eventually. It's how we grow as people.

In the meantime, have a hug.

**Karloky** · 10-13-2013 10:20 PM

I need a hug

I am depressed

**JasKrab** · 10-14-2013 01:11 PM

How can you be depressed when you're active in the wonderful world of dreaming?

*Heres a Big hug anyway

**Karloky** · 10-15-2013 03:04 PM

Originally Posted by JasKrab

How can you be depressed when you're active in the wonderful world of dreaming?

*Heres a Big hug anyway

actually I am not really.... I have too much to do for school and I am always in a hurry...and in some pressure ....

**bro** · 10-21-2013 11:38 PM

Power to the people

Not saying it will be easy, but you will get through these trials.

**snoop** · 10-22-2013 01:25 AM

Don't need a hug, but I do have a question. What is it about hugs that people like so much? Do they really make you feel that good? I get nothing out of hugs, usually for me it's an entirely one-sided gesture and I only do it for the sake of the other person because they appear to like it.

**JasKrab** · 10-28-2013 05:42 PM

interesting question.

What i was thinking this week was that i thought a hug is a more intimate gesture than actually kissing.
You can hug without meaning. but when i hug someone i hold dear i do it to hold them tight and closer to me for that one moment.

but that really depends on who. I do not hug most people. A lot of girls like to do this quick hug to say goodbye but i don't feel anything with those either. Its the way you hug i think

**Clairity** · 10-31-2013 12:12 AM

Hello.. this is Clairity!! It truly warms my heart to see that this thread is still alive!!

I was and always will be a hugger as it lifts my spirits and hopefully those I hug!!

Major hugs to you all!!

**JoannaB** · 10-31-2013 01:33 AM

I do need a hug. I have been feeling off both physically and emotionally.

**LucasPotter** · 10-31-2013 01:35 AM

Originally Posted by JoannaB

I do need a hug. I have been feeling off both physically and emotionally.

**tommo** · 10-31-2013 02:03 AM

Originally Posted by Clairity

Hello.. this is Clairity!! It truly warms my heart to see that this thread is still alive!!

I was and always will be a hugger as it lifts my spirits and hopefully those I hug!!

Major hugs to you all!!

yeyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! I was thinking I need to drop back in here soon, I need a hug

Originally Posted by JoannaB

I do need a hug. I have been feeling off both physically and emotionally.

**JoannaB** · 10-31-2013 02:40 AM

Originally Posted by tommo

yeyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! I was thinking I need to drop back in here soon, I need a hug

Hug you right back!

**anderj101** · 10-31-2013 02:47 AM

**LucasPotter** · 10-31-2013 02:50 AM

Originally Posted by anderj101

Samchel!

**khh** · 11-07-2013 07:13 PM

Originally Posted by Clairity

Hello.. this is Clairity!! It truly warms my heart to see that this thread is still alive!!

I was and always will be a hugger as it lifts my spirits and hopefully those I hug!!

Major hugs to you all!!

Clairity!