Thread: "Why do I like boys?"

I'm not sure how serious I should take some people's comments here. tbh, I'm surprised how open you are about liking small children/boys... I am repulsed, disgusted and ashamed for you! Like, damnit man! You like 7 year old boys! THE FUCK. That's just horrible. I seriously hope your head sorts itself out and you can enjoy the grown human body, m or f - because otherwise you're going to live a very, very miserable life.

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

I'm not sure how serious I should take some people's comments here. tbh, I'm surprised how open you are about liking small children/boys... I am repulsed, disgusted and ashamed for you! Like, damnit man! You like 7 year old boys! THE FUCK. That's just horrible. I seriously hope your head sorts itself out and you can enjoy the grown human body, m or f - because otherwise you're going to live a very, very miserable life.

You are ashamed for us? You should be ashamed of yourself for writing such a mean post. Maybe you find it disgusting that we like 7 year old boys, but that's how we are, and your mean posts and "shame for us" won't change that.

I'm sorry, did I hurt your feelings? I am only being honest, like everybody else here. Finding small children attractive is not right and I am not going to sit back and pat you guys on the head and say: "Oh, you can't help how you feel" - and in ref to the person who mentioned people will accept pedo's in the future like gays (jokingly or not) - that'll never happen, because simply:

adult m/f + adult m/f = harmless
adult m/f + child m/f = harmful

Good luck.

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

I'm sorry, did I hurt your feelings? I am only being honest, like everybody else here. Finding small children attractive is not right and I am not going to sit back and pat you guys on the head and say: "Oh, you can't help how you feel" - and in ref to the person who mentioned people will accept pedo's in the future like gays (jokingly or not) - that'll never happen, because simply:

adult m/f + adult m/f = harmless
adult m/f + child m/f = harmful

Good luck.

You may have been honest just like everybody else, yet no-one else here but you was prejudicial. What are you gonna say next? That gay marriage isn't right? That transsexuality is harmful? Likes don't harm anyone, actions do. Maybe I want to kill you, but that doesn't make me a killer.

And the harmful point is very debatable, really. Don't just state things, explain why you believe so. I see more harm in forced heterosexual marriage than many other stuff. I'm 18, I don't see why on earth I'm no supposed to like someone on their 12s. But that is just me.

Maybe you're just in the pedo closet xD

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

and in ref to the person who mentioned people will accept pedo's in the future like gays (jokingly or not) - that'll never happen, because simply:

adult m/f + adult m/f = harmless
adult m/f + child m/f = harmful

Good luck.

I'd be willing to bet that most pedophiles know that their desires if acted upon would be harmful, but that doesn't mean other people can't be understanding of the fact that they have those desires and accept them for who they are. Just because the attraction is there doesn't mean they are going to go out and rape children. Likewise, just because normal people are attracted to adults doesn't mean they are going to go out there and rape adults. Sure, on both sides it happens, but that's because there is some other physchological issue at work.

But I know what you mean in that acceptance will probably never be at the same level as gays. I don't see the legal age being dropped lower than it is.

Originally Posted by Kromoh

You may have been honest just like everybody else, yet no-one else here but you was prejudicial. What are you gonna say next? That gay marriage isn't right? That transsexuality is harmful? Likes don't harm anyone, actions do. Maybe I want to kill you, but that doesn't make me a killer.

And the harmful point is very debatable, really. Don't just state things, explain why you believe so. I see more harm in forced heterosexual marriage than many other stuff. I'm 18, I don't see why on earth I'm no supposed to like someone on their 12s. But that is just me.

Maybe you're just in the pedo closet xD

What a pathetic response. Yeah right, it's my fault I am so mainstream isn't it? It seems that you are trying to comfort and re-assure yourself by saying these things. I can see through your comments. It's sad really, because if I were you I wouldn't even be attempting to accept the horrid thoughts you're experiencing, but it seems you don't think it's a big deal?
You have a mental disorder.
I would be smothering myself with a variety of adult pornography until I found something I enjoyed. Have you tried this or are you exclusively attracted to little boys?
It is clear from my last two posts that I'm not homophobic. I saw that one coming... I don't have any problems with gays - simply because it is two adults who give consent. Do you honesty believe that a 7 year old kid would want to be with you? I'm telling you, they wouldn't. This is a scientific fact. Your self identity is severely impaired if you think otherwise. This is THE reason why it's wrong - and yes, it is still terrible even if you aren't out there raping children - because no doubt (if not already, in the future) you'll be buying some abusive shit online and supporting the criminal industry and the sexual exploitation of children. So yeah; get a fucking grip, of course it is harmful.

I direct this to all the crazy paedo's here who think liking little kids is cool. I realise I am out numbered.

Have any of you told your friends/family yet? Let me know how it goes.

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

What a pathetic response. Yeah right, it's my fault I am so mainstream isn't it? I understand you are trying to comfort yourself by saying these things. I can see through your comments. It's sad really, because if I were you I wouldn't even be attempting to accept the horrid thoughts you're experiencing, but it seems you don't think it's a big deal?
You have a mental disorder.
I would be smothering myself with a variety of adult pornography until I found something I enjoyed. Have you tried this or are you exclusively attracted to little boys?
It is clear from my last two posts that I'm not homophobic. I saw that one coming... I don't have any problems with gays - simply because it is two adults who give consent. Do you honesty believe that a 7 year old kid would want to be with you? I'm telling you, they wouldn't. This is a scientific fact. Your self identity is severely impaired if you think otherwise. This is THE reason why it's wrong - and yes, it is still terrible even if you aren't out there raping children - because no doubt (if not already, in the future) you'll be buying some abusive shit online and supporting the criminal industry and the sexual exploitation of children. So yeah; get a fucking grip, of course it is harmful.

I direct this to all the crazy paedo's here who think liking little kids is cool. I realise I am out numbered.

Have any of you told your friends/family yet? Let me know how it goes.

Man, don't call it horrid, it just shows your prejudice.

Once again, liking children doesn't mean doing things to children.

Saying something is a scientific fact doesn't make it so. A 7 yo doesn't even know what he/she likes, and that's exactly why it's unethical to do anything to them, or it'd change who they'd become. It is comparable to giving alcoholic drinks to a child.

And telling friends or family would be as accepted as telling we're gay, especially because of prejudicial people like you out there. Give up the prejudice, and I'll be willing to discuss with you. Too bad you grew to dislike things which you make you be seen as unconventional. They call it hard-headedness.

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Finally, in my book, I don't see why being straight isn't a mental disorder, too.

In all honesty, I would rather not have a discussion with you anyway. Good luck!

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

You have a mental disorder.

Not proven, that's your belief.

I would be smothering myself with a variety of adult pornography until I found something I enjoyed. Have you tried this or are you exclusively attracted to little boys?

Yes. Except replace boys with girls.
EDIT: Actually, flat chested women CAN in rare cases arouse me. But damnit, it's just so rare, and it really takes a fucking effort. And there'd still be alot of "adulty" things that would just ruin it. So yeah. Exclusive here.

Do you honesty believe that a 7 year old kid would want to be with you? I'm telling you, they wouldn't. This is a scientific fact.

Completely irrelevant. None of us think this. And you have no reason to think that we think so.
EDIT: Again, this is not always true, children are sexually developing, so they are quite prepared to explore things. Now, I don't have experience with this myself, but they flirt. And ofcourse there's the things with playing doctor and stuff like that, but ofcourse that's with other children - Or should be. But anyways, how is this a scientific fact? Source?
That absolutely no 7 year old would be interested in ANY form of sexual interaction with an adult is quite a bold statement. I think if you give them the chance, you'll be sure to find one who wants to, even without manipulation. I'm not saying it wouldn't be wrong then, actually it still would, alot. There's still just too many things wrong with it to list.
But for some reason, even though there are so many things wrong with it, you choose the stupid arguments that aren't even true, and then state that it's a scientific fact. Cool.

And really, it depends on what you mean with "be with you". Still, don't take this Edit too seriously because I don't know what I'm talking about, but alteast I admit it, while you don't.
I'm not sure how related this is, but I think it is, and it's interesting. And I think you need it, because my impression is that you've gotten caught up in the mainstream opinions. (It's not a bad thing in itself, the bad thing is that you just team up with the majority, without even CONSIDERING that you MAY be more or less wrong on maybe just some of it.) Anyways, here it is:
http://www.ipce.info/booksreborn/yat...ame.html#32267

and yes, it is still terrible even if you aren't out there raping children - because no doubt (if not already, in the future) you'll be buying some abusive shit online and supporting the criminal industry and the sexual exploitation of children.

That's just a lie. Get a grip.
EDIT: Besides, most of the time, you don't pay for it. Someone picks it up from A, then uploads it to B to share it with the others, who then download it and upload it to C. If you happen to be one of those that want to download it, and pick it up from C, the original creator has no way to find out you downloaded it, and he won't gain shit from it.
But that's a completely different talk, and I in no fucking way support child pornography at all, since there's just so many reasons why it is/can be wrong to list. I mean, one thing is that they are being sexually abused, but they're being FILMED at the same time. That can't be healthy even to adults.
EDIT2: There's lolicon aswell, you know, drawn stuff. In which no actual children were hurt, only some perverts wrist was hurt in the making. Why is it that you jump to the conclusion that we'll "no doubt" go all the way to jumping into sharing and buying real child pornography?

I direct this to all the crazy paedo's here who think liking little kids is cool. I realise I am out numbered.

Even if you weren't outnumbered, the arguments you have been using so far, we've all seen atleast 50 times before, so if you'd been 50 anti-pedo's, it'd still be the same old arguments that don't hold ground.

Have any of you told your friends/family yet? Let me know how it goes.

I have, both my parents know, and they seem to try and ignore it.
Some of my old classmates know, and my best IRL friend knows aswell. We joke about it now and then.

EDIT:
Ah, I didn't realize he fled. (I realize the wording is quite provocative, but come on, that's what it is. You feel that you can't get through to us with your arguments. In other words, your arguments don't work, so you decide to go away instead. Tip for next time, find some actual intelligent arguments instead of just spouting out stuff we've already heard so many times before.)

Originally Posted by Maeni

Not proven, that's your belief.

Well, it's a genetic "aberration". Or mutation if you will.
It certainly is not a disorder, as a disorder means you do something "abnormal" because of trauma, or something that happened to you after birth.

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

I'm sorry, did I hurt your feelings? I am only being honest, like everybody else here. Finding small children attractive is not right and I am not going to sit back and pat you guys on the head and say: "Oh, you can't help how you feel" - and in ref to the person who mentioned people will accept pedo's in the future like gays (jokingly or not) - that'll never happen, because simply:

adult m/f + adult m/f = harmless
adult m/f + child m/f = harmful

Good luck.

There is no right or wrong subjective feeling, you may dignify their attraction to younger males as morally or ethically inappropriate, but still "not right" is invalid.

The fact that gays don't choose to like the same sex is reason enough to force anyone to accept them, regardless of religion or belief. I do not see how this is different at all from people who like children (avoiding the term "pedo" for political correctness). Only because I'm gay it doesn't mean I'll go out and rape the first boy I see. Same thing with liking children.

Let's keep the topic to what it was originally intended be about, and not about the support of pedophilia. Kthnxbai.

Originally Posted by Jeff777

Let's keep the topic to what it was originally intended be about, and not about the support of pedophilia. Kthnxbai.

+1

This thread just became quite funny when a typical anti hopped in.

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

adult m/f + adult m/f = harmless
adult m/f + child m/f = harmful

Just for the fun and games, tell us why it is like this, and then prove it.
Please?

(avoiding the term "pedo" for political correctness)

We need a good word for it.
There's no clear definition of the word "pedophile", or even if there is, everyone seems to find their own definition.
Childlover is just silly, because it sounds like a desperate attempt to make it seem like a harmless, loving thing. Which I think we can all admit it isn't. We are all perverts.
I say we use the term "Pedosexual" because it clearly shows that it's related to pedophilia, but is still different than the word "Pedophilia", so there's more room for having a clear definition: A person who is sexually attracted to children.

Hoop hoop.

I have a dirty secret too.
I like death.

EDIT:
That's not very dirty though, imo.
That's just kinda odd and really interesting.

Mmmhh.. aaaahh... Yes! Yes! Yeeeees!!! ... that was good.

Hahaha just kidding
But no, really, I like death, and not just in the "like" sense of the word. It's hard to explain. But know this: that doesn't mean I murder people for kicks, ok?

Originally Posted by Maeni

We need a good word for it.
There's no clear definition of the word "pedophile", or even if there is, everyone seems to find their own definition.
Childlover is just silly, because it sounds like a desperate attempt to make it seem like a harmless, loving thing. Which I think we can all admit it isn't. We are all perverts.
I say we use the term "Pedosexual" because it clearly shows that it's related to pedophilia, but is still different than the word "Pedophilia", so there's more room for having a clear definition: A person who is sexually attracted to children.

Hoop hoop.

We totally need a word for it. Maybe we should make a thread about the topic.

I really like "childlover" just as I like "homoaffective", but you're right, it is kinda too sugary. Pedosexual is just total awesome. Maybe we should brainstorm for more ideas, but I really like pedosexual.

The only arguable thing about it: 'pedo' comes from greek and 'sex' comes from latin. I've tried many latin radicals and the ones I like best are:
"juvenosexual" (latin juvene - young);
"infantosexual" (latin infant - infant xD)
"puerisexual" (latin puer/puera - boy/girl)

Men used to marry young woman... just do some reading of history..

So now it's time for pedophilosophy?
EDIT:
I shall be off to, uh, deliver newspapers in the good weather.
And just for the anti, i'll oggle at some 7 year old girls while doing so.

Be back later.

Originally Posted by theyearthreethousand

I'm not sure how serious I should take some people's comments here. tbh, I'm surprised how open you are about liking small children/boys... I am repulsed, disgusted and ashamed for you! Like, damnit man! You like 7 year old boys! THE FUCK. That's just horrible. I seriously hope your head sorts itself out and you can enjoy the grown human body, m or f - because otherwise you're going to live a very, very miserable life.

I'm not sure how serious I should take some people's comments here. tbh, I'm surprised how prejudicial you are about other people's sexuality... I am repulsed, disgusted and ashamed for you! Like, damnit man! You like 22 year old girls! THE FUCK. That's just horrible. I seriously hope your head sorts itself out and you can like something that you really do, not what you were taught to - because otherwise you're going to live a very, very miserable life.