Thread: Is there anyone else with my "disease"

This girl that I think I'm falling in love with is so intelligent, not extremely beautiful but she has something special. If someone should be my girlfriend than it would be her. I only don't really know if I really love her because I've known her for a long time and I have never had any feelings for her. She's also taken so now I don't stand a chance.

I don't think about her all day long, I just feel more comfortable in her presence. I also don't have all these weird feelings I had when I was in love when I was an eight year old. I know that's child love but back then love seemed so much more intense, so it worries me that I'm not really in love.

Originally Posted by mathmagic

This girl that I think I'm falling in love with is so intelligent, not extremely beautiful but she has something special. If someone should be my girlfriend than it would be her. I only don't really know if I really love her because I've known her for a long time and I have never had any feelings for her. She's also taken so now I don't stand a chance.

I don't think about her all day long, I just feel more comfortable in her presence. I also don't have all these weird feelings I had when I was in love when I was an eight year old. I know that's child love but back then love seemed so much more intense, so it worries me that I'm not really in love.

Do you go to a small school? That can limit the number of types of women you meet. There is a very specific and rare type of woman that I have romantic chemistry with, and if I had not gone to big schools, I probably wouldn't have met too many of them in school.

Originally Posted by Universal Mind

Do you go to a small school? That can limit the number of types of women you meet. There is a very specific and rare type of woman that I have romantic chemistry with, and if I had not gone to big schools, I probably wouldn't have met too many of them in school.

my school contains 1700 people and in these six years I only felt love or what I think is love once and that is now. I also felt love once when I was 14 on a summer camp. both these girls aren't really beautiful. It's just the social connection. I have many female friends, also pretty girls but I don't think they're really intelligent, they just laugh at my jokes and tell stupid stories, I also hate the girls that laugh at my jokes all the time. That's an advice for a girl, don't laugh at everything he says! I, myself am the fool of the "gang", always joking, hyperactive, some people think I'm enervating. I can never be serious, don't know why but actually I do have this sentimental me that I always keep inside. I laugh frustration away, and if I get more frustrated, I get less serious. I know what my problem towards girls is but I can't do anything about it for any reason.

99.9% of couples in high school, aren't in love, have never been in love, don't even know what the words mean. they just confuse love with some other emotion. teenagers fear being alone and will hold onto anyone for dear life. so don't compare yourself to other teenagers, they have no idea what they're talking about

it's more important that you have a best friend, male or female. a best friend will give you a better idea of what love really means than any high school fling. why? because romantic feelings don't last forever, for many couples they only last one to two years. without friendship to cement the relationship, the relationship will fall apart after romantic feelings fade. a long lasting stable relationship, is ALWAYS founded first on friendship

ps. if you want to love someone, love them

love isn't a closed box only meant to be given to one person and one person only, or something you can trap into only one type of relationship - sexual. so love those friends for who they are, even if you will never be in a romantic relationship with them. there are other kinds of relationships that are just as worthy as persuing

I haven't had a 'romantic interest' for 2 years or so, but that's basically because there's nobody around. I'd imagine the same is in your case. Just look around, or wait. Whatever. It's hardly time to start panicking. There's nothing wrong with you.

During my lke, 15th or 16th year of life I had maybe 8 girls tell me i was "the one" or in love with me. of course none of them were [I think], its just hormones getting the best of them and their fragile forms.

80 here.

Originally Posted by Xei

80 here.

thats nearly two a week fuck

Originally Posted by Xei

80 here.

81 here.

Love is nothing to rush into, just take your time. Find your desire in life and love will come to you when you least expect it. The more you rush it, the more it hurts when it ends. DON'T RUSH, enjoy your life.