Why This Keeps Happening To Me ?

[Jericho]

this is embarrassing yet unfortunate , this has happened to me 3 times already ! why whenever i seduce a girl in a lucid draem and wish to make love to her she refuses ? i normally don't care what i say to her if it might have been a mistake or whatever because there is no such thing as consequences in a lucid dream or any kind of dream in general. with that being said , it does contradict the claims of those who say u can control or influence what happens to you if your lucid dreaming , i need help ! after i wake up i start getting upset and always tell myself next time i might rape someone in a lucid dream if she refuses lol but that's harsh , i rather have it the easy way than experience negativity in a dream. all we freaking do is talk to each other and she smiles , so I'm thinking yes she might be in a good mood but she ends up refusing if i wanna kiss her or do anything sexual , this is driving me crazy.