Quote Originally Posted by gab View Post
You don't always have control in a lucid dream. It will get better with experience. You can also read some tutorials on DV Wiki. But the blurriness and waking up too soon can be taken care of by stabilizing the dream. Again, there are great tutorials on this subject. (I don't have much experience with either of your problems).

When you see through your closed eyelids, I believe that's astral vision, using your third eye. And yes, it's quite possible, that you have been lucid dreamning as a child. That's the prime age for that.
Happy dreams
Thanks man, i was starting to think no one was going to reply back. So do you think im seeing things not because my eyes are open but because im using astral vision? I had posted on these boards before about how i always dream about a present lover cheating on me and the next day i will confront them about it and i'll find out its true. Its always like my dreams warn me of dangers. I really do believe i have some gift i havent tapped into yet.