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      first off - YES YES YES AND YES!! thank you for writing this @Ctharlhie... more words like these need to be written. the intention behind your efforts drives you forth towards the goal. setting your intention and knowing it is true and pure. now that can be the hard part..

      all i would like to add is that meditation helps.. to set your intent, to realize your intent. raising your general awareness, through meditation. no matter what technique you use. will also raise your awareness during sleep. as a person that mainly has DILD through natural occurrence (i almost NEVER do RC's) the raised awareness helps me to just suddenly "realize" that hey, i'm dreaming.

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      I dont think "The Art of Dreaming" needs a defender at all
      I read the book many times and it always struck me how my experience corresponds to the one described (to the certain extend). There are lot of things in the field of lucid dreaming that can not be described in words. So Carlos did it in the best way one could. And i tell you i read a lot of books on the subject.
      It's a pity you took the book this way.
      Sometimes circumstances like lighting in photography. The same thing might look different depending on where lights are.
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      Fair enough.

      In terms of defense, though, I meant less a fending off of attacks (which in this case are incredibly rare here), but more a clear description of why the book has value, and what exactly Castaneda brought to the table.

      Okay if you don't bother, though!

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      I used this technique now since my last post 3 weeks ago and I had a lucid dream almost every night. This night I had 4. They were all Dreams were I just knew I was dreaming. They were all very long and I don't remember anything before I became lucid.

      This is just amazing! My subconscious mind seems just to know when I am dreaming. Before I fall asleep at night I know that I will recognize I am in a dream. And I think the same when I wake up during the night.

      I can't believe that it's even possible. From no LDs and no Recall I went to severeal LDs almonst every night in under a month.
      I find those threads most helpful:

      http://www.dreamviews.com/f12/lucid-...-later-139114/

      http://www.dreamviews.com/f12/silver...eaming-117015/

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      Loooo, it's really amazing. Keep it this way

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      Quote Originally Posted by Loooo View Post
      I used this technique now since my last post 3 weeks ago and I had a lucid dream almost every night. This night I had 4. They were all Dreams were I just knew I was dreaming. They were all very long and I don't remember anything before I became lucid.

      This is just amazing! My subconscious mind seems just to know when I am dreaming. Before I fall asleep at night I know that I will recognize I am in a dream. And I think the same when I wake up during the night.

      I can't believe that it's even possible. From no LDs and no Recall I went to severeal LDs almonst every night in under a month.
      I find those threads most helpful:

      Be lucid now, so you can be lucid later.

      SilverBullet's Newly Revised Key to Lucid Dreaming
      This is really heartening to see, great stuff, Loooo. When I'm 'on a roll' and basically intending I too get most of my DILDs from being lucid straight from the beginning of the dream without need to reality check, it's just so clear that what I am experiencing is a dream. Seeing as people are still finding this thread useful I'll outline a few of my more recent ideas.

      I have, however, changed my stance. As such there is no 'non-technique', everything and anything you do to lucid dream is technique, even thinking about lucid dreaming is effectively informal auto-suggestion. As far as you actively lucid dream, there is no getting out of technique.

      Building on this, intent is not a 'thing' per se, it is not a technique or process in itself but an effect of technique. As I elaborated in the original post the brain is plastic and will engineer itself according to stimulus, lucid dreaming is a positive feedback loop, the more lucid dreams you have the more you will have, as Percylucid said in his MILD class. You practice technique, which leads to LDs, which leads to a lucid attitude, which forms a feedback loop. It is my theory that we can get in the middle of this process. Biological psychology asserts that emotion, cognition and behaviour arises from physical conditions of the brain. However, it is becoming increasingly clear in neuropsychology that thoughts and behaviours also influence the brain in the other direction. Establishing a 'lucid mindset' brings about lucid dreaming.

      I now see intent as interacting in a reciprocal relationship with awareness. To use an analogy, your awareness is like a bow, the brute strength of your lucid dreaming, while intent is the arrow, the more refined the straighter and truer the arrow will cut through the air. Both the bow and the arrow depend on each other for success. Awareness is the main work of lucid dreaming, reality checking, reverse reality checking, ADA, mindfulness, lucid dreaming, meditation, are practices in the active element of lucid dreaming. Intent can be 'helped along' by building the attitude of a lucid dreamer, ala Silverbullet and as Loooo has discovered.

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      I'll also chuck in a few words on Castaneda. The Art of Dreaming has a massive bullshit quotient. Those abstractions of the 'gates', the 'inorganic beings', the metaphysics, all harmful alike to anyone getting into lucid dreaming who may pick it up. I only find the second chapter to be truly useful in the way it details the attitude of a lucid dreamer.
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      Always, no sometimes think it's me,
      But you know I know when it's a dream
      I think I know I mean a yes
      But it's all wrong
      That is I think I disagree

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      From http://www.dreamviews.com/general-lu...-dreaming.html

      7th- This is a dream. For the first couple weeks, when you begin to get serious, go outside, in a place away from everything, and state to your environment, this is a dream. If you are around a tree, state aloud, that is a dream tree, and know it inside your mind. Feel the dreamlike state of reality around you. Reality is a dream. The body you possess right now is a completely temporary body, it will be gone from your location in 7 years, all the atoms substituted for another. Know this, don't think it, feel the dream, and know it is a dream. Doing this in reality is the first step to doing it in the dream. Once you begin to do it daily in the dream state, you can stop doing it in reality, as then you will feel the difference. First, do this for about 30 minutes every day for a couple weeks. It will cause a dramatic shift in your awareness, and allow for it to be activated in your dreams. Its kind of like a primer on the engine.
      O. M. G. I *did* this, I thought it up myself! I think I did this leading up to one of my best LD hot streaks ever. I somehow thought it wasn't showing results and so stopped it....time to return!

      That's a great post!
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      ^ Yeah it's a really powerful concept that crops up in a lot of the literature.

      Quote from Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming by Stephen Laberge:
      1. Day practice
      During the day, "under all condition" think continuously that "all things are of the substance of dreams" (that is, that your experience is a construction of your mind) and resolve that you will realise their nature.

      2. Night Practice
      At night, when about to go to sleep, "firmly resolve" that you will comprehend the dream state - that is, realise that it is not real, but a dream.

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      Because we dream of things that have concerned us recently, it is likely that if you spend enough time thinking during the day that "everything is of the substance of dreams," then eventually you will entertain that thought while you are dreaming.
      And, from The Tibetan Yogas of Sleep and Dreams by Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche:

      Throughout the day, practice the recognition of the dream-like nature of life until the same recognition begins to manifest in your dreams. Upon waking in the morning, think to yourself "I am awake in a dream." When you enter the kitchen, recognise it as a dream kitchen. Pour dream milk into dream coffee. "It's all a dream," you think to yourself, "this is a dream." Remind yourself of this constantly throughout the day.
      A powerful but simple practice is to try to maintain presence in the body continuously throughout the day. Feel the body as a whole. The mind is worse than crazed monkey, jumping from one thing to the next, it has a hard time focusing on one thing. But the body is a source of experience more stable and and constant, and using it as an anchor for awareness will help the mind grow calmer and more focused.
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      Always, no sometimes think it's me,
      But you know I know when it's a dream
      I think I know I mean a yes
      But it's all wrong
      That is I think I disagree

      -John Lennon


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      ^^ I always had a small problem with this activity.

      I want to say it's because I don't think it is a good idea to question reality while definitely in reality. calling a place that you know is real a dream, and then trying to believe it, is grounds for cognitive dissonance, I think. Doing so might feel a little silly (and thus not work), and when doing this exercise during a NLD you will simply experience the exact same thing you do in waking life (i.e., you will think that all things are the substance of dreams while knowing that the scene you are in is real).

      This activity also has a potential ADA-like problem: focus too much on your surroundings, and you run the risk of elevating their importance over that of your own presence, and lucidity might accidentally become more elusive while false lucids more likely.

      Okay, that's what I want to say. Unfortunately, I think my real problem with this exercise is that it never worked for me... so maybe I'm biased. I simply cannot move through reality while assuming everything is a dream with any sincerity. and besides, I very very rarely dream of anything that had anything to do with what I was doing during the day, so these exercises are fairly useless for me.

      I also thought I heard Laberge backpedal on this concept a bit, deciding that it is not such a good idea to question reality when you are definitely in it, but I may have heard him out of context.

      Sorry for the negativity on this; I hate disagreeing with dream yogis, but I felt it worth mentioning that there may be possible setbacks to imagining everything is a dream or, worse, convincing yourself that everything is a dream...feel free to ignore!

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      I practiced until I started getting persistent feelings of unreality/depersonalisation, then I stopped it pretty quickly. Imagining your life is a dream probably isn't something that should be mixed with generalised anxiety..
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      People have been known to go mad or fall into depression when biting off more than they could chew with meditation / following the buddhist path. There's a reason they teach you things in steps.

      I imagine that if you just suddenly started thinking everything was a dream without fully understanding what meanings lie behind it, that it might very well mess you up.

      Besides, I'm not fully convinced of forming "habits" that are meant to make their way into your dreams. I hardly ever remember any habits of mine appearing in my dreams and even if it might, forming such a strong new habit that it makes its way into every dream would take a ridiculous amount of time I would think.

      I don't believe in "take 10 years to master lucid dreaming", even consistent meditation shows signs of changes within just weeks to months, it's just not as persistent. The awesome part of the brain isn't just how it can change but also how quickly it can change.

      The key, I believe, is to do something correctly and mindfully. For example if you throw a ball every day without thinking about it (mindlessly), you can spend the next thousand years throwing the ball and you still won't learn anything knew. You have to be aware of what goes on when you are throwing the ball and make conscious changes to the way you throw it if you want to improve your ability, this goes for everything we do, if you do it mindlessly through shear repetition, you won't get anywhere.

      Same with LDing, the way I see it if you just grow into the habit of doing something LD related every day and do it mindlessly, it won't improve your LD abilities. Repetition is important, but not mindless repetition.
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      Well I just woke from a short but sweet LD, breaking my almost-month-long dry spell, and went to bed thinking along the lines of Ctharlie's recent Intention post, and reading his links to posts about "abandon technique, know you can do it, be confident, relax, don't stress, meditate, etc.", so I think I will continue firmly along this path to see where it leads. It seems very promising (I'll still keep my vigilance and RRC, etc.).

      When I did these dream walks, I usually added in a sense of "here *I* am in this dream." "Here I am, on a dream street, with dream cars and dream people, look there's a dream cloud in the dream sky, it's all a dream, I'm dreaming..." and so on. I never felt a sense of losing a grip on "reality" (for what is reality?).

      And isn't it anathema to dream state recognition to have a mindset that *knows* you're not dreaming? I do not want that thought anywhere near my dreams: in my dreams I want to *know that I'm dreaming*. Maybe self-awareness is supposed to take care of that all by itself, but I'm not seeing that fruit yet, it seems a ways off.

      When I'm dreaming non-lucidly, I don't feel like I'm dreaming. This leads me to the conclusion that at any time, I could actually be dreaming, and I want to be continuously vigilant of this possibility, so that I catch the dreaming moments. "Knowing" that I'm awake seems also completely counter to this, and to the mindset the dream yogis are talking about.

      I've avoided the dream yogi book up to know, reading that it's really confusing, but I think that's a mistake, I'm going to get it pronto.

      And also I can't believe I missed that part from LaBerge, time to re-read ETWOLD to see what else I notice now, 10 months after my first read of it.
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      Quote Originally Posted by FryingMan View Post
      When I did these dream walks, I usually added in a sense of "here *I* am in this dream." "Here I am, on a dream street, with dream cars and dream people, look there's a dream cloud in the dream sky, it's all a dream, I'm dreaming..." and so on. I never felt a sense of losing a grip on "reality" (for what is reality?).

      And isn't it anathema to dream state recognition to have a mindset that *knows* you're not dreaming? I do not want that thought anywhere near my dreams: in my dreams I want to *know that I'm dreaming*. Maybe self-awareness is supposed to take care of that all by itself, but I'm not seeing that fruit yet, it seems a ways off.

      When I'm dreaming non-lucidly, I don't feel like I'm dreaming. This leads me to the conclusion that at any time, I could actually be dreaming, and I want to be continuously vigilant of this possibility, so that I catch the dreaming moments. "Knowing" that I'm awake seems also completely counter to this, and to the mindset the dream yogis are talking about.
      You may have missed my point. It isn't about knowing that where you are is a dream, or reality. It's that, unless you have some mental illness or have made some curious global esoteric/religious decisions, you will know, on a visceral and very real level, that you are in reality no matter what you try to tell yourself during your walks. That knowledge goes very deep, to unconscious, even instinctual places. So, no matter how effectively you intellectualize that "I actually could be dreaming," your unconscious is saying "The hell we are! This stuff is real."

      So, come dreamtime, your unconscious might just give you a NLD dream schema that mirrors this exercise... right down to an excited DC You believing that this is all could be a dream while you unconsciously know it is all real; not a very good combination for lucidity, I think. The unconscious is a very powerful engine, and fueling it with still more things to build an imagined external world that seems consistent to your DC self is not a great idea. And of course convincing it that reality is not real could be a troubling fuel in itself, for some.

      Better, I think, to focus on your Self, and not on global observations that the entire external world is either real or a dream; it is more important than to remember that this dreamworld is you than it is to make the dreamworld something important in its own right (which I think is exactly what this exercise might do).

      I'm not sure any of that made sense to anyone but me, and I may be the only one who finds it important, but I hope you consider it. And of course if it works for you on a consistent, post-placebo basis, than forget everything I said and have at it!

      I've avoided the dream yogi book up to know, reading that it's really confusing, but I think that's a mistake, I'm going to get it pronto.
      That is an excellent idea! I also think that at this point you will like find it more simplistic than confusing...

      PS: You know, I did these last few posts without ever once reading the subject of this thread! I suppose that anything that breaks a dry spell is a good thing, so, though my caveat still stands, I do agree that this exercise might at least help a bit to get you back into dreaming mode. Dry spells are also a time when anything lucid is welcome, even dreams about being lucid, so I guess that exercise might make sense to do -- until the dry spell ends, of course!
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      It's great to hear that you managed to break your dry spell, FryingMan!

      Your statement about 'knowing' you're dreaming reminds me of an idea I had a while back linked to the practice of imagining your life as a dream. Laberge once said:
      In the dream state, the only essential difference from waking is the relative absence of sensory input, which makes dreaming a special case of perception without sensory input.
      Which lead me to the conclusion that, rather than imagine that waking life as a dream, it would be more useful to recognise that all experience is synthesised by the brain.

      This is to be found in the philosophy of Schopenhauer, who inspired by his readings of Hinduism and the concept of Maya (illusion) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, wrote that 'What we know is not a sun and an earth, but only an eye that sees the sun, a hand that feels the earth.'

      Could the attention to the constructed nature of all experience be the critical vigilance we have been discussing? Also, this mindset does not carry the same threat of mental illness (because it is simply mindful of the condition all experience).

      EDIT: And certainly pick up the dream yoga book, it's no more confusing than the matters we preoccupy ourselves with here! I would also recommend Herman Hesse's Siddhartha which, while not directly about lucid dreaming, is certainly about waking up.
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      ^^ What he said.

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      I get what you're saying. The quote from the Dream Yoga book seems pretty clear, though (dream kitchen, dream milk, dream coffee). What, Sageous (or Ctharlie, or anyone), do you think the dream yogis would say in response to your warnings of false lucids from this practice, and from it being counter to the goal of achieving lucidity?

      Here it is again for convenience:
      Throughout the day, practice the recognition of the dream-like nature of life until the same recognition begins to manifest in your dreams. Upon waking in the morning, think to yourself "I am awake in a dream." When you enter the kitchen, recognise it as a dream kitchen. Pour dream milk into dream coffee. "It's all a dream," you think to yourself, "this is a dream." Remind yourself of this constantly throughout the day.
      And let me say that I have had maybe 1 or 2 false lucids, maybe. It is not a problem I have. My problem is t hat my "powerful unconscious" is just not cooperating and is keeping me non-lucid for very long periods of time. I just need that nudge, that hint, and boom, I'm lucid. So small a thing, yet so elusive, for so long. That's why I keep my mind on dreaming all through the day.

      Maybe that's why I stopped before, I just couldn't maintain the enthusiastic illusion for long. ("The hell it is!").

      But yeah, I definitely needed to shake things up.

      Oh and I saw a dream crab last night (well, I saw a crab in a dream and said "oh look there's a crab", I did *not* think "there's a dream crab") after seeing a giant crab shaped cloud IWL previous in the evening and thinking "dream crab!"
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      Quote Originally Posted by FryingMan View Post
      I get what you're saying. The quote from the Dream Yoga book seems pretty clear, though (dream kitchen, dream milk, dream coffee). What, Sageous (or Ctharlie, or anyone), do you think the dream yogis would say in response to your warnings of false lucids from this practice, and from it being counter to the goal of achieving lucidity?
      I think the dream yogis would shake their heads and say, "Well, everything is a dream, isn't it?" The dream yoga perspective is drawn from a religious metaphysics that assumes that the world we encounter in waking life is not the real world, but a construct just like that of a dream, so it follows for them to assume that dreaming life is exactly like waking life, metaphysically speaking, and that you should approach both with the same non-dualistic perspective.

      Also, I think lucid dreaming is very much a side-effect of dream yoga practice, and not its goal. That goal is essentially preparation of the mind for sleep yoga, which involves maintenance of consciousness in any physical state including death, as well as understanding the world through which that consciousness moves, eternally and non-dually. Or at least that's a brief summary of what I think the dream yoga perspective is, and I likely made a hash of it. If you're really curious, ask Sivason....he might even be able to tell you what I mean!

      Though I admire the non-dualistic dream yoga approach to establishing your Self in dreams (where "reality" is non-dualistic), I am not a complete fan of the religious side of their practice... our physical world is one of energy and matter, and it moves along just fine without us, whether we like it or not. So I will find myself (often reluctantly) attaching mundane, probably unavoidable problems to some dream yoga practices, like pointing out that a mentally healthy person cannot truly convince herself that she is in a dream while awake; I think even the dream yogis probably spend much time doing this convincing.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Sageous View Post
      Better, I think, to focus on your Self, and not on global observations that the entire external world is either real or a dream; it is more important than to remember that this dreamworld is you than it is to make the dreamworld something important in its own right (which I think is exactly what this exercise might do).

      I'm not sure any of that made sense to anyone but me, and I may be the only one who finds it important, but I hope you consider it. And of course if it works for you on a consistent, post-placebo basis, than forget everything I said and have at it!
      I can definitely see your point, but I also want to explore this idea of mindful ADA with added critical reflection as far as we can, so with that in mind...

      I don't think that false lucidity is a concept that really crops up in dream yoga. But then their whole concept of lucidity is radically different to the attitude found on this forum. For dream yogis lucidity is not the end goal pursued through the deployment of intricate techniques, for dream yogis lucidity is the technique, a tool to be used on the path to enlightenment. The achievement of non-dualistic rigpa, a dream state without dream scene or dream body, is a lucidity that makes even waking life look like a non-lucid dream (which it in many ways is), and the achievement of which would make regular old WILD a doddle.

      Total control of the dream is practiced by dream yogis from their first lucid, there's no conception of the limitations we have imposed on ourselves as a community, such as sex waking you up, because the dream is understood on a philosophical level as without substance. Total dream control is exercised as a tool to increase mental flexibility and help on the path to enlightenment.

      Obviously this is my own ignorant, orientalist take.

      @Sageous; but to address your issue with the practice, there is an element of critical self-reflection, and I can't believe I didn't quote it earlier with the other material!

      In the tibetan yogas of sleep and dreams there are two daytime practices. One of these is regarding everything in waking life as of the 'nature of dreams,' the other is to:

      direct the same lucid awareness to emotionally shaded reactions that occur in response to the elements of experience [...] when a reaction arises, remind yourself that you, the object and your reaction to the object are all dream. "This anger is a dream, this desire is a dream [...]" The truth of this statement becomes clear when you pay attention to the inner processes that produce emotional states: you literally dream them up through a complex interaction of thoughts, images, bodily states and sensations. Emotional reactivity does not originate "out there"in objects. It arises, is experienced, and ceases in you.
      Enough of a focus on the self?

      I think that this practice, in addition to the dream awareness practice, or ADA, may add the crucial critical reflection to make, what has been tentatively called elsewhere, All Day Self-awareness.

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      So now having actually read up through the dream yoga practice section of the Tibetan book I understand more fully what people are saying about it. I have less of a problem with the "it's all a dream" practice, perhaps I'm internally modifying it to be "this is all *like* a dream" so that I object less to it.

      I had two lucid dreams the very night I read this section for the first time, performing the preparatory practices: strong intent to lucid dream, day memory review thinking of the memories as of being dreams, quieting the mind/meditation before hand, "praying" for lucid dreams.

      I'm very inspired by this and will continue it for a while to see where it goes. They're also huge WBTB proponents, actually instructing the practitioner to wake up every two hours and fall asleep with a particular visualization (WILD basically as I see it).

      There is a mention in the Tibetan book I glanced over quickly about the benefit of having the mind present in the here & now attentive to what the body/senses is/are experiencing that struck me as being a sort of goodness that can come with King Yoshi style ADA (at least to an extent). Instead of being zoned out thinking about work, etc. while walking in the park, instead be fully present and mindfully experience your surroundings. It did not have the sense that you're "giving power to the environment" at the expense of the self at all (of course their view is that it is all an illusion/dream anyway).
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      ^I agree with all of this basically. Right down to the Tiebetan techniques all being predictions of techniques that we have formulated as a community (wbtb, WILD, ADA, they're all in there).

      Also, I found that when I carried out a micro-wbtb last night (natural awakening from drinking water) and meditated during my WBTB I started recalling lots of dreams that I hadn't upon immediately awakening (often happens in the shower, too).

      I basically see the tibetan method as:

      Daytime - (modification of) ADA, Zhine/Shamatha meditation
      Nighttime - micro-wbtb and SSILD/WILD

      This is what I am currently basing my practice on.

      EDIT: apologies for the appalling grammar of the above post.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Ctharlhie View Post
      ^I agree with all of this basically. Right down to the Tiebetan techniques all being predictions of techniques that we have formulated as a community (wbtb, WILD, ADA, they're all in there).

      Also, I found that when I carried out a micro-wbtb last night (natural awakening from drinking water) and meditated during my WBTB I started recalling lots of dreams that I hadn't upon immediately awakening (often happens in the shower, too).

      I basically see the tibetan method as:

      Daytime - (modification of) ADA, Zhine/Shamatha meditation
      Nighttime - micro-wbtb and SSILD/WILD

      This is what I am currently basing my practice on.

      EDIT: apologies for the appalling grammar of the above post.
      Yes it was quite an epiphany. I too almost never have dreams immediately in mind upon waking unless I was lucid or close to it. The recall process is like meditation, I agree, with the addition of some some gentle probing. I almost never have day recall, it comes to me in bed or not at all, except a few times, as you note, in the shower!
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      I've started thinking about my day as I'm falling asleep when I first go to bed now, basically just think in chronological order from the time I woke up to now that I'm falling asleep again, I've noticed a couple of things:

      - My memories of what happened today are only a bit stronger than my memories of dreams, in fact some old dreams I've have left much stronger impressions. So memories of reality and dream reality are not really all that different. If you also think about your day today, at which points did you think "am I dreaming?", all the day-time memories seem like a dream when we're recalling them but how much of it was lucid?

      - I've stopped keeping a journal (except for really interesting dreams, my dreams lately have been somewhat boring), just doing the above (and some micro WBTB) seems to be enough to make me recall at least in part most of the dreams during the night.


      I think we tend to think that dreaming, or just sleeping in general, is somehow separate form the rest of our reality, but really it's just a 24 hour thing, whether awake of asleep you can either be concious or not.
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      I have also stopped keeping a dream journal in the traditional sense, I now use the tagging or 'dream seeds' technique: Throw Away Your Dream Journal: Remember Your Dreams The Easy Way

      The other night I remembered 2 dreams and around 10 fragments this way.

      My aim is to use this and micro-wbtb in the mode of Sensei to have multiple SSILD sessions a night, and to eventually have such strong recall that I am aware as I am waking from a dream.

      In fact, recall is the only thing I will actively intend going to sleep from now on, I will leave lucidity to passive intention (trusting in my daytime awareness work and SSILD).
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      Quote Originally Posted by Ctharlhie View Post
      I have also stopped keeping a dream journal in the traditional sense, I now use the tagging or 'dream seeds' technique: Throw Away Your Dream Journal: Remember Your Dreams The Easy Way
      Can I offer a caveat here?

      I did that dream seed thing for a while many years ago, and now I have a pile of notebooks filled with small groups of meaningless words. I was sure at the time that all I needed to do was jot down some important cues (just like that guide to which you linked suggested), and my brain would have the memories on hand when I summoned them, based on those cues/seeds. My self-confidence at the time was fairly strong, as was my general recall ability, so I figured just jotting those few words down would be more than enough to store the dreams forever (it also satisfied my laziness streak immensely, BTW). I also have a pile of dream journals filled with extensive, multi-page records that succeed, even 30 years after written, to bring back vivid memories of the dreams I painstakingly recorded in them.

      I think this seeding thing is not a solution to disinterest in journaling, but a fairly leaky bandage at best; sure, it's an appealing idea, but -- at least in my experience -- it is an extremely inefficient tool, especially in the long term. If you want a document that you can look back on, forget it; those seeds will be nothing more than meaningless words when you look at them in the future, while the dreams you wrote down in full will likely come right back to you as you reread them.

      Also, when you jot down those seeds, rather than try to record everything you can remember, you stand a chance of only recording the stuff that mattered to you at the moment; by trying to write down everything, you stand a good chance of bringing in details, forgotten seeds, that may carry great import (or be the real keys to getting stored in long-term memory), but that you just hadn't thought of at the moment of waking.

      So yes, this seeding idea is very appealing, and probably does work to a degree (especially at this moment, while you are actively following your dream life), but in the long run, for the sake of both long term memory and collecting the stories of your dream life, it might be better, I think, to write it all down.

      I suggest you try to tough it out, Ctharlhie (and Sensei) and record as much as you remember. This seeding might work for you in the short term (it certainly will seem like its working, at least it did for me), but making it your technique for remembering dreams might really does risk forfeiting some very important memories.

      So, consider this carefully before you risk sacrificing your adventures to the ether. I could be wrong, sure, but what if I'm not?
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      Quote Originally Posted by Sageous View Post
      Can I offer a caveat here?

      I did that dream seed thing for a while many years ago, and now I have a pile of notebooks filled with small groups of meaningless words. I was sure at the time that all I needed to do was jot down some important cues (just like that guide to which you linked suggested), and my brain would have the memories on hand when I summoned them, based on those cues/seeds. My self-confidence at the time was fairly strong, as was my general recall ability, so I figured just jotting those few words down would be more than enough to store the dreams forever (it also satisfied my laziness streak immensely, BTW). I also have a pile of dream journals filled with extensive, multi-page records that succeed, even 30 years after written, to bring back vivid memories of the dreams I painstakingly recorded in them.

      I think this seeding thing is not a solution to disinterest in journaling, but a fairly leaky bandage at best; sure, it's an appealing idea, but -- at least in my experience -- it is an extremely inefficient tool, especially in the long term. If you want a document that you can look back on, forget it; those seeds will be nothing more than meaningless words when you look at them in the future, while the dreams you wrote down in full will likely come right back to you as you reread them.

      Also, when you jot down those seeds, rather than try to record everything you can remember, you stand a chance of only recording the stuff that mattered to you at the moment; by trying to write down everything, you stand a good chance of bringing in details, forgotten seeds, that may carry great import (or be the real keys to getting stored in long-term memory), but that you just hadn't thought of at the moment of waking.

      So yes, this seeding idea is very appealing, and probably does work to a degree (especially at this moment, while you are actively following your dream life), but in the long run, for the sake of both long term memory and collecting the stories of your dream life, it might be better, I think, to write it all down.

      I suggest you try to tough it out, Ctharlhie (and Sensei) and record as much as you remember. This seeding might work for you in the short term (it certainly will seem like its working, at least it did for me), but making it your technique for remembering dreams might really does risk forfeiting some very important memories.

      So, consider this carefully before you risk sacrificing your adventures to the ether. I could be wrong, sure, but what if I'm not?
      I mostly agree but I have a few remarks:

      1. I have "tags" back from over 4 years ago in my DJ (I guess I was already doing it before it was cool?) and they still make me recall the dreams quite well.

      2. Often I still write out in detail the dreams I really, really want to keep (like some of the more awesome ones) but even so, reading over them again several years later doesn't give me that much more of an impression than tags. It helps recall more details, especially good for ideas you came up with in dreams, but that "wow" factor is unfortunately lost either way at first glance.

      3. Some of my most awesome dreams aren't even in my DJ, I still haven't written them down because I no longer know the date and I like to keep the DJ dated, but I still remember them extremely vividly and basically they're just cherished memories of sort; for dreams like these a DJ would be the same as a photo, sure it's nice to look at but it was the experience that matters and that you'll never forget, written down or not.


      Also from a mnemotechnic point of view, if you want to keep memories "fresh" you need to go over them every now and then. For really vivid memories it might be once a year, for dreams you have a little trouble with you might want a few times a year, but the point is if you want to keep the "wow" factor you need to drive some juice into those memory links! So if you read over your DJ every few months, even tags should be fine as long as you jolt the memories often enough.

      If there are some tags you don't "feel" anymore, might I suggest reading over them a few times while relaxed and trying to let the memories come back, it might take a little while but you'll probably be able to rejuvenate those links given enough (relaxed) effort. The memories are there, it just takes a bit for them to float to the surface.
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