My Lucid dreams suck!

**drudgetorpor** · 05-18-2012 09:10 AM

So,

You know when you become lucid and everything is coated with a tinge of awe and wonder, everything is illuminated, colors are more vivid and the feeling of exuberance is fully taken you over,

Ye, so that never happens to me. All my lucid dreams are pretty bland and particularly insipid. When I try to fly I can only conjure a moon leap and then I crash. If I try to commence dream coitus I am always rejected and laughed at by my dream characters, jeez!

Why do all my LD´s suck!

**lucidlistener** · 05-18-2012 09:37 AM

Ahh, you sound all too impatient in this. I congratulate you on your success though! Next time you're in, try to relax a bit more and take it easy. Lucid dreaming is only what you make it, so if you find yourself bored or incapable, try being more creative and optimistic. The biggest challenge isn't in realizing you can do whatever it is you want, it's in the 'knowing' you can and 'knowing' how easy it all is. With a bit more confidence, ambition, and maybe a more calm state of mind - i'm sure your next lucid will be more entertaining and vivid.

**drudgetorpor** · 05-18-2012 09:40 AM

Ok, cheers mate, I´ll endeavor to be more patient next time around

**littlezoe** · 05-18-2012 11:05 AM

I guess your dream control is not really good, that's the problem. Just believe that you can fly, believe that your dream is clear an vivid. Believing it is the easiest way to make it true in a dream.

**roman67** · 05-18-2012 11:10 AM

Hey, Thanks Lucidlistener for your advice. Actually, I am also facing same problem.

**drudgetorpor** · 05-18-2012 11:29 AM

Originally Posted by littlezoe

I guess your dream control is not really good, that's the problem. Just believe that you can fly, believe that your dream is clear an vivid. Believing it is the easiest way to make it true in a dream.

Would´nt that just be fooling myself?

**littlezoe** · 05-18-2012 11:35 AM

Originally Posted by drudgetorpor

Would´nt that just be fooling myself?

Not fooling, but making it true

The Dream World is your world, you are the one who is the "master" of it. If you believe that the sky is red, then the sky will be red. If you believe that you can fly, you'll be able to fly... It's that simple.

Even if the dream starts out blurry and dark, just believe that it'll be clear and vivid, then it'll turn clear and vivid. Your thoughts can control everything in your world.

If you are skeptic about whether you can do it or not, then you surely won't be able to fly for example. Take it as it's sure.

**Matte87** · 05-18-2012 12:07 PM

Yeah, active your senses to make it more vivid and you'll have more pleasant dreams. Also, if you want to have sex you can't have the mindset: "What if she rejects me?" Be confident!