Thread: Am i able to sleep with anyone in my lucid dreams? :o

Hate to break it to you, but if you want to become lucid just to have sex, you're not going to have any luck. Not only is sex something very hard to sustain in a lucid dream, it's also very volatile. You could be having sex and all of the sudden the person you're having sex with turns into your sister, for example.

Originally Posted by MadMonkey

Don't listen to them you can have all the sex you want in your LDs. I did last night actually. Just make sure you first learn to stabilize your dreams and keep your sex drive from effecting your lucidity.

^ This

Its a very personal thing, so don't let anybody here discourage you, some find it easier than others. But with enough stabilization it can be done.

Originally Posted by RareCola

You could be having sex and all of the sudden the person you're having sex with turns into your sister, for example.

If the thought of her pops into your mind at a time like that, perhaps, but nothing like that ever happened to me.


So If this is your current dream goal, I would say go for it! The sky is the limit, uhm well, you could also do it in space off course.

i have no sister

Originally Posted by markusruhl

i have no sister

It could turn into your mother.

okeey, but if you do the stabilization part right, does it feel like real life, walking around in the city, feel your jeans against your legs, hear car horns and sirens, conversing with other people, be able to breath and blink and swallow etc etc. because i read everywhere that you have like more fingers, being able to push a finger through your hand and you have a blur vision and stuf, that doesnt sound vivid to me im reallly really excited and i hope i can get good answers both from beginners and experianced lucid dreamers. thank you for all the good answers !!

Originally Posted by markusruhl

okeey, but if you do the stabilization part right, does it feel like real life, walking around in the city, feel your jeans against your legs, hear car horns and sirens, conversing with other people, be able to breath and blink and swallow etc etc. because i read everywhere that you have like more fingers, being able to push a finger through your hand and you have a blur vision and stuf, that doesnt sound vivid to me im reallly really excited and i hope i can get good answers both from beginners and experianced lucid dreamers. thank you for all the good answers !!

Yes of course, it can even feel more real than real life.